Soldato
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Did you at least tell the lady sorry I'm married I can't do this, you're a stunner, if I wasn't married I'd stay with you. Or just walk out of the car not say anything like a dick?
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le wut?
You can take that to the bank.
When I was in my first marriage, from age 21 until 32, and through my euphoric live-in relationship with the most beautiful Polish girl you're ever likely to see, from 32 until 40, given that scenario of albert's, I'd have been in like a rat up a drainpipe, no danger, but since meeting the woman I love more than anything, from 42 up until the day I shuffle off this mortal coil, aside from one fall from grace, in our first year together, when a 20 y.o. barmaid gave me an err "helping hand?" in the cellar of my local boozer when I helped her find some Galliano for someone still living in the 70s, who wanted a Harvey Wallbanger, I've been as pure as one of the Pilgrim Fathers.
I don't think I'll ever be able to stop my eyes passing messages to my brain, like, "Jeez, I would not say no to that!", or, "Christ, she's drop dead gorgeous", but my brain, with the unwanted assistance of advancing years, shuts those messages down.
Where once it would have passed them straight down to the business department, with an attachment saying, "Get ready guys, just in case he gets lucky", it now thinks, "Naah, if I can manage to send some blood downstairs from his head, he'll probably faint!"
If you can’t keep things like this to yourself then you shouldn’t put yourself in this situation in the first place.
Some men (and women) have no morals and can hide stuff like this from their partner without thinking about it.
Some men (and women) have no morals and can hide stuff like this from their partner without thinking about it.
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Depends how fit your wife is and how much you love her.
Someone's feeling guilty, obviously.
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THIS!
It happened, and it could have been a lot worse. Learn from it, move on.
There is no point in telling the missus. You have learnt from your mistake and wont repeat it, whats the point in plumbing it back through the U bend for her to have a smell as well.
A nice plumbers analogy there, could we have an electricians and maybe a builders one too?
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You're not getting a wide enough range of responses, can I suggest starting a thread on mumsnet in order to provide balance?
Also please provide the link.
Also please provide the link.
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She was only after your organs. If you'd gone through with it you'd wake up in a bathtub full of ice missing a kidney and a few other squishy bits.
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Be British, don't say anything and push the thoughts down inside. Cap off with alcohol if necessary.
You have 2 choices:
1) Tell your wife. This makes you feel better as you can move on from the guilt but at the same time could destroy your wife, her trust in you, your family life and make everyone around you miserable.
2) Don't tell, live with the guilt until it doesn't bother you anymore and let everyone around you keep living in happiness.
It is a no brainer from me.
Accept it was a mistake, make more effort with your wife and move on. Don't punish her for your mistake.
1) Tell your wife. This makes you feel better as you can move on from the guilt but at the same time could destroy your wife, her trust in you, your family life and make everyone around you miserable.
2) Don't tell, live with the guilt until it doesn't bother you anymore and let everyone around you keep living in happiness.
It is a no brainer from me.
Accept it was a mistake, make more effort with your wife and move on. Don't punish her for your mistake.