How children change mothers ownership rights

Some of the comments about trusting her etc.. are rather naive given the divorce rate in the UK as a clear indication that even with a legal commitment to each other relationships do break down.

Establishing where you stand and what you could do to protect your interests given it isn't exactly a rare event is pretty prudent.

A friend of mine did see a solicitor before her boyfriend moved into her flat, he signed an agreement with her before moving in. They have since split up and he's moved out and not tried to claim a portion of her flat. If I were you OP I'd go and see a solicitor, spending a relatively small amount up front could save you rather a lot down the line.
 
billysielu said:
I've had this conversation with a few women too. They say they'd get pregnant on purpose, but it's the pride they say it with... weird.
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This happened to a guy at work. She had been using the pill for years and decided to unilaterally come off it without telling him. A few months later... pregnant.

He told me the story when we were both extremely drunk down the pub one day.
 
RDM said:
If only there was some way that men could also ensure that pregnancy didn't arise from sex....
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Look homie we get it (Dudes should theoretically wear condoms ALWAYS), but we all wanna be raw heroes.

The sooner Vasalgel becomes a thing (Reversable male contraception) the better.
 
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Hades said:
This happened to a guy at work. She had been using the pill for years and decided to unilaterally come off it without telling him. A few months later... pregnant.

He told me the story when we were both extremely drunk down the pub one day.
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That's why abortion and consent should work both ways. Obviously men can't have s physical abortion but the parental rights side of things should be a choice for both.
 
lol at some of the comments in here, just stay single for the rest of your life if it bothers you that much :rolleyes:.

Me and the Mrs get 50/50 and not even married, big deal suck it up.
 
Spook187 said:
Yes was all sorted when we bought a house together 50/50 split, not a problem.
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But that's fine if you bought it together and both contribute.
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more where one person is doing the vast majority of the contribution that its more difficult to Stomach.
And yes, looking after a kid is contribution.

Really, it seems only a big problem if you end up with a kid you didn' w and a partner who hasn' ccontributed
 
413x said:
But that's fine if you bought it together and both contribute.
It'
more where one person is doing the vast majority of the contribution that its more difficult to Stomach.
And yes, looking after a kid is contribution.

Really, it seems only a big problem if you end up with a kid you didn' w and a partner who hasn' ccontributed
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I contribute like 90% but that's down to a long term health issues with the mrs soon after she graduated, it doesn't bother me that i pay for most as that's the way it is, in sickness and in health(even though were not married) were a team 22 years in the making :)
 
90/10 isn't 50/50
Don't get me wrong, i'm on about 2.5x my girlfriends wage and don't mind paying for most things or letting her contribute a lot less than a regular lodger would but i an trying to protect myself if she were to move in, contribute then claim a portion of my property if things turned sour.

How would anyone else here feel about signing a legal document before moving in with a partner who had the property in their name?
 
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