Thanks for the responses so far.
I'm certainly not keen on the looks of the Type 'R, however reading people's opinions in here and reviews on the web it would be silly to dismiss it outright and I will certainly see if I can get an extended drive in one.
It doesn't have to be a hatchback, it's just I think the current crop of top-end hot hatches offer such a well rounded package. I'll be honest I've been looking at M4s too as they seem to have crept under £30,000, same with F10 M5s, however I'd image the latter to have running costs way above what I'd be willing to pay, probably the same for the M4 too but I'll investigate.
The only car I'm 100% ruling out is the RS, boring, outdated interior and the exterior styling doesn't do anything at all for me, plus the ride is bone-shaking hard, even in comfort.