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Out of touch is where you want to be! You don't go touching another alpha's pinked up backside! Massive braux pas!
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Out of touch is where you want to be! You don't go touching another alpha's pinked up backside! Massive braux pas!
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You can ask a girl out once a week for years without being obsessive..
The obsessive part of it comes from, thinking about it constantly, posting about it on forums, and starting to believe another person is the cause of your problems.
Haha, you guys. Nothing beats good ole' British humour. Something sadly lacking in Hong Kong.
People at work think I made Tracy cry, she is telling anyone that would listen god knows what. In the meantime, I'm just trying to keep my head down without letting the situation escalate.
The problem isn't so much Jen anymore, it's that I've never had someone go out of their way to make me look bad. Almost surreal, really.
People at work think I made Tracy cry, she is telling anyone that would listen god knows what. In the meantime, I'm just trying to keep my head down without letting the situation escalate.
The problem isn't so much Jen anymore, it's that I've never had someone go out of their way to make me look bad. Almost surreal, really.
Aye, there must be more to this.
If you genuinely haven’t done anything and she really is going behind your back and bad mouthing you to all your colleagues it’s almost at the point for me where you need to speak to HR to protect yourself.
HR won’t protect him, just the company.
Well yes, but if it reaches the point where she says something he is ****ed.
#metoo and all that.
If anyone needs any of this explaining to them then they are seriously socially underdeveloped.
Do you think that your “yes” example may be a touch patronising for instance?
Psych major with issues, oh the irony.
She's playing you two against each other. only way to win is to not play at all.
Be civil and move forward, keep yourself occupied with something outside of work.
Trust me it'll drive her nuts not having an effect on you.
Or as my father would say, give someone enough rope they'll hang themselves.
She's playing you two against each other. only way to win is to not play at all.
Be civil and move forward, keep yourself occupied with something outside of work.
Trust me it'll drive her nuts not having an effect on you.
Or as my father would say, give someone enough rope they'll hang themselves.
More than "seriously socially underdeveloped", I think. I'm so unsociable that my littery fantasy is my own private island, population just me, and I'm the one doing the explaining!
No. Why?
And what was that in response to?
I mean you've not given any details here... suppose she'd said "I think there is a real risk of Row vs Wade being reversed since Trump has stacked the Supreme Court in his favour" and you'd said "LOL Donald Trump is my daddy" then maybe the topic, in this example abortion, is something sensitive for her
next convo with the other female is "I've only just got over the trauma of my abortion, I can't believe how insensitive that douchebag is" etc..
You seem to be oblivious to or ignoring the actual details here, perhaps you've even forgotten what was discussed now. I'm going to assume that it was something that she cared about and I'll definitely assume that it would be very easy for a response like "Donald Trump is my daddy" if she felt the issue she was discussing was serious could be used to make you look really bad to the other girl(s).
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It's nice that you've got the full transcript available to tell the OP that he should definitely not pursue because she's clearly not interested, despite the fact that what we do know is they got on really well and she gave off signs that she almost certainly liked him at one point.
What people here may not understand is that it's better to run with the assumption that a girl likes you and be wrong, than run with the assumption that she doesn't like you when in fact she does. In the former all that happens is that you get rejected or look a bit silly, in the latter you miss an opportunity that you might regret.
PLOT TWIST: Donald Trump is actually her daddy.