Pop over to the forums on LandlordZone.com, lots of very good, helpful and knowledgable people there are will be more than happy to help.
I'd be asking the bf why they are being targeted if your sis has no idea, very strange if there was no fancy car outside.
Looking for some advice, I'll keep this as short as possible:
Last week three men dressed in black, armed with a very large knife, a hammer and baseball bat smashed into the property via a back glazed window and proceeded to assault my sister and her BF in a very violent manor (lots of blood, very serious). This was in the middle of the night, they stole some money and demanded things like car keys and watches but didn't get them.
Or because criminals are scum and don't think like normal people, and they also know they will meet little to no resistance in this country.
Or because criminals are scum and don't think like normal people, and they also know they will meet little to no resistance in this country.
I also don't understand why they cannot go back to the property. If they owned the property would they instantly sell it?
The main problem most people have after being robbed, even when they weren't home at the time of the robbery, is a strong sense of insecurity. They feel violated and unsafe, it can be very difficult for people who have been through such an event to continue living at the address where something like that has happened. A lot of people who have been through this sort of thing absolutely have sold their properties and moved on, and while some might consider it irrational it's the only way they can get rid of the feelings of fear and anxiety. I don't blame the couple for wanting to leave whatsoever, it's very hard for people to understand unless they've been through the same sort of thing. It's not necessarily something you can magically fix by installing an alarm system and some cameras.
The main problem most people have after being robbed, even when they weren't home at the time of the robbery, is a strong sense of insecurity. They feel violated and unsafe, it can be very difficult for people who have been through such an event to continue living at the address where something like that has happened. A lot of people who have been through this sort of thing absolutely have sold their properties and moved on, and while some might consider it irrational it's the only way they can get rid of the feelings of fear and anxiety. I don't blame the couple for wanting to leave whatsoever, it's very hard for people to understand unless they've been through the same sort of thing. It's not necessarily something you can magically fix by installing an alarm system and some cameras.
Yeah but it could happen anywhere. I know people that have been robbed and none of them sold their homes.
I was broken into twice at my old house and it has made me totally paranoid. The first time I was asleep upstairs, they came in, took my car keys, wallet, bike and left. The second time, I was out and they completely tore the house apart but as I have very few things that are worth anything and easy to steal, they actually took very little. The second time hit me much harder than the first even though they took less, and I although I feel much happier now I no longer live in that house, I'm still stupidly paranoid and OCD about everything. It's even affected things like my car choice so I won't have anything that stands out or is desirable to steal any more. Anything to make myself look less of a target compared to my neighbours.
Being robbed whilst you're not home and having your windows smashed in, a number of big blokes coming in and then being heavily beaten are two very different circumstances though. You can't even compare the two. I can completely see why someone wouldn't feel safe in that home anymore.
Who said they put up a fight?So your sister and her BF risked their lives against 3 guys with a machete, baseball bat and a hammer? I'm not being funny here but if you are outnumbered and outarmed and they are asking for car keys you hand them over. The car should be fully insured against this kind of thing and it's a legal requirement to have insurance.
Who said they put up a fight?
It's very easy to talk about the perfect way to act in an extremely stressful situation without ever having been in that situation. If your natural reaction when a bunch of uninvited thugs burst into your home is to just sit there and smile, I don't know what to tell you, the vast majority of people are going to act on instinct during the heat of the moment. People don't train for being robbed, it's not something they expect to happen and isn't something you can wholly prepare for.
Psycho, you do talk some ****. If you're not sympathetic to the plight of this couple then I suggest you just stop posting in here.