Lots of things are. I rode a trailer on mine for 4 years doing the Nursery commute. Not sure of the mileage (did set a bike up for it on Strava but first couple of years it's not selected). It did 1hr - 1hr30 per week for 4 years with no adverse effects or problems to the carbon... Although I had an issue with the rear thru axle which may have been related (extra stresses on it eventually stripping threads), I was still prepared to replace the frame at any point knowing it was voiding the warranty. No issues. At the end it was towing 45kg! Many of those 'rear' seats will mount on the seat-tube, which I guess if it has the seatpost inserted down to the same depth would give it extra strength, but you're still 'squeezing' carbon tubes... Maybe if there was one with other mounting options (pannier/axle?) or one of the top-tube ones as they mount to multiple points would 'spread the load' more, so less likely to cause damage.I thought that was a no-go with carbon frames?
I'm 'blessed' with Spatz overshoes. Have an early pair of their 'normal' ones which became the Pro1 and a pair of Roadman II. Amazing overshoes for the wet weather, but due to the cost of them for the 'not-quite-as-wet-and-grim' weather commutes I've always worn cheaper pairs. Current are a set of Endura 'Road Overshoes'. They're OK for the money, not expecting them to last more than 2 winters. Maybe even 1. I prefer the more fabric feel and type of the Sealskinz Open Sole which have been my go-to the last few years. They seem to show less wear, more tougher constructed and just a good fit. The 'wear out' through the toes rather than falling apart or splitting as many others do. They just don't seem to make them anymore, I actually picked up a NWOT pair of them on the 'bay for £15 and they'll be used after the Endura.Did you get anywhere with your hunt for overshoes? I struggle as well. I have some cheapo ones which cover all of my shoes but don't think they were that good. Then my wife bought me some nice Rapha ones (largest size I think), I could barely get them onto my bare foot.
Sealskinz replaced them with the 'All Weather' open sole, but they're just a bit too high price for my liking. Especially as reviews comment they're not as thick as the previous so part of me thinks not as warm in the winter months when they need to be. I did get a pair of the 'Halo' and liked the side opening, but they seemed to wear out faster. Didn't ever use the halo lights if anyone wants a set...
You'll also get sick of hearing this... But it's oh so true! They grow up fast, cherish those young moments. But there are also times you're glad they do 'progress'!Enjoy the moments that you do get because your kid will only be young once

Post-natal is very common in fathers too, but we really don't talk about it... Like any mental health related things with men, we're terrible! But just be aware it happens and may happen again at various points. But don't feel you need to apologise for it! The stresses and strains of family many of us are very aware of (even if we don't talk about it)I'm sorry you guys have to deal with me at times.
I was having a bit of a meltdown last week but talking to my partner and some of my friends who are also fathers I realise what I went through was quite normal and it seems most have gone through that little bit once or twice.

Congratulations! Your life is going to suddenly get very busy! Structure everything you can and get anything 'done' out the way that you can. Any of those DIY jobs which will need doing the next few years!I have also got children on the way (apparently that is the prime time to take up cycling). Twins as well...
Just do what you can and try not to hang your happiness on performance or how often you get to do it. At this time of year if you get a crisp or even wet day with the sun out its lovely.
But totally agree the second point about finding happiness in 'different places'. For me those early months was just fitting 'any' riding in around the craziness when I wasn't absolutely zonked and sleeping was a better option...
Mine was end of September '17... Christmas babies the lot of them!Must be in the water… mine was born in September…
I’m back riding 2-3 days a week on the trainer now but an hr a time. Not able to do any big Sundays currently but also rained out!

But didn't even know you where expecting, congratulations buddy! Well done for getting back onto the turbo, very easy to jump on flexibly for an hour or so here and there when time & energies allow. Keep it up!

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