The rewilding experiment in the Netherlands didn't really backfire, though. Massive amounts of suffering and death are normal for animals in a genuinely wild context. It's just that many people, especially "activists", have a very rosy-spectacled Disneyfied view of nature. There's no way to satisfy them either. If you have a genuinely wild environment they'll castigate you for not interfering in it to try to make it match their Disneyfied fantasies and if you do interfere in it they'll castigate you for not allowing nature. Or, as they see it, Nature. An entity, akin to a god. Or, in some cases, literally a god.
Using humans as the apex predator would be natural. It's the role humans filled in many environments. Despite being physiologically more suited to a scavenger/prey role in many ways, intelligence, social behaviour and extreme aptitude for tool use make humans eminently suited to the role of apex predator. Often too successfully. Unlike other apex predators, humans are able to farm. That breaks the link between predation and food supply, making sustained over-predation possible. For other apex predators, over-predation will kill them too and that often restores a balance. Humans are so massively successful that we've broken the system and we have to be able to maintain the balance ourselves rather than relying on natural processes. We're too powerful for natural processes. Personally, I think that the great filter hypothesis is probably true and that handling such an extreme degree of success is probably one of the filters. It's obviously extremely difficult for a species to maintain a viable and sustainable balance on a world by their own actions. We don't know how to do it. But we must do it. "playing god" is not a choice. It's a necessity. Is resurrecting extinct species part of a right answer? Maybe. Maybe not. There are many examples of well-meaning attempts at maintaining a balance going very badly wrong. They involved introducing an existing species rather than resurrecting an extinct species, but the basic problems are the same. Taking on the role of gods while having the knowledge and wisdom of mortals. It's a dicey business.