Yeah, 100%. We have a young daughter, nursery isn't cheap and for us the security of a fix definitely helps to make things feel a bit more grounded.Don't blame you really.
I think if I was remortgaging now I'd want to go for variable.. But the security of a fix is hard to pass on when you are in the moment
We have no grand plans at this stage, we ultimately wanted to do that cliche thing of buying a house and making it a home. The mortgage is in a sensible enough position that we can afford it on a single salary if one of us was to lose a job and we're not breaking the bank each month to pay it - but again, it's the security of fixed that basically made that decision for us.