My wife always wants aesthetically pleasing and matching toasters and kettles too. We just got rid (gave away on freecycle) of a really good toaster and we've now got a pleasant but not so functional one. She knows I'm not happy about it, but sometimes you must concede. I think the matching kettle might show its true colours soon as it already looks a bit sad. I hope it dies and we can send it back and get something functionally excellent.
The really functional toaster was actually very nice as well, though quite expensive. Annoyingly, I can't remember which one it was.