Tate Brothers - Round 2

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It should have had a sequel and ultrawide support
 
Nigel Kingdon said:
I was there, there was a definite gap between getting her full attention and being told off and how disappointing she was. It was definitely that that triggered the tears.
"a proportional punishment like making her see how hard it is to clean off by helping her clean up her mistake", this was tried (after the event) with washing up liquid and water, but it required Methylated Spirits to remove.

(genuine q)Is this how you've dealt with your children's misdemeanours in all cases?
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yes, i treat my child with respect and use opportunities like these to teach them how to make good decisions going forward. disciplining with shock or pain would be teaching the wrong lessons. especially at such a young age.
 
Nigel Kingdon said:
OK, actual incident. My step daughters 3 YO was asked repeatedly not to use felt pens on the walls. She picked one up and deliberately scribbled on a wall. My step Daughter took her hand and slapped it (not hard, no red mark etc). And told her how disappointed she was. It was the disappointment that caused my grand daughter to cry. She's not done it since (now 6), and colouring in is one of her favourite things to do.

Was this 'physical violence'? Did it alter my grand daughters behaviour for the worse? What would you have done?
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Your step daughter will be looked up via social media and reported by some of the goons on here, expect a police visit and court appearance.
 
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8 police have been redirected from virtual hate crime to bring in the child for interrogation and assimilation into the collective. Resistance is actually futile.
 
"i treat my child with respect"
So does my step daughter.
I can't believe that if a child misbehaves, deliberately, you can find a way to respect that?
 
"Your sister". Although I see the 'funny' side to your post, I think you should try to attain a decent level of reading ability before posting again?
 
for a 3 year old i would probably not jump to the conclusion that they are even deliberately misbehaving, or even if that's a concept they would be able to fully grasp. what 3 year olds do have is empathy and theory of mind, which i feel is a better focus foster learning. They are learning the world, learning boundaries and what is acceptable and ok. You can help them understand why drawing on the wall is not ok and on paper is, without the need to resort to violence. we are complicated creatures, lessons should be more nuanced than 'arbitrary rule is bad, i will get smacked'. i don't think this thinking is radical, i do think compassion and patience with our young is essential. as well as respecting their autonomy and sense of self.
 
Oh no I said sister instead of step daughter, I will now be due a police visit.

It's almost as if the person committing an offence is more subjective than the offence itself......
 
GIBURROWS said:
Oh no I said sister instead of step daughter, I will now be due a police visit.

It's almost as if the person committing an offence is more subjective than the offence itself......
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We’re discussing a 3 year old misbehaving and a parent giving them a tap on the back of the hand. No one is getting a police visit for that. Give over posting nonsense.
 
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Nigel Kingdon said:
"i treat my child with respect"
So does my step daughter.
I can't believe that if a child misbehaves, deliberately, you can find a way to respect that?
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If your step daughter hit a three year old then how is that treating her with respect? Would she hit an adult for a minor misdemeanour or expect the child to hit her for one? If it is ok for a parent to hit a child for disappointing them when they seemingly can't get their message across any other way then why is it not ok for the child to hit a parent or another child at nursery etc
 
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Lol what context does any of this happen. It's like everyone lost a few braincells.
 
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I was smacked one time I can remember and so I'm told because I wouldn't stop screaming in a supermarket. 1 whack on the arse to break me out of my screaming cycle and mum regains control. Think of screaming kids on an aeroplane. That was me. ( Still is some would say)

You all seem to think smacking parents are pummeling their kids for everything and anything.

A smack is an absolute last resort, how can you not understand this?
Constant child beating is abuse no one thinks otherwise.
It's not remotely comparable.


Sorry I over reached. None of this matters. Keep on parenting.
 
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