ex got married

You know, even if you're over someone, it's still a gut punch to see something like this (speaking from multiple experience...)

It's also OK to feel that - just try not to spiral or get obsessed.
 
BUDFORCE said:
On the plus side, you can sit there in your pants smoking weed and paying games all day.

What's that? Left over doner sat there on the table in the morning, fat gone cold and congealed.

Tuck in son, no one is judging you now.
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Thanks, I am now trying to find where I can get a kebab at half 9 in the morning

But yeah get off social media. My ex was obsessed with it and would constantly post after we broke up blocking her wasn't enough as mutral friends would repost stuff so I just got rid of the lot. Only downside was it took my mum a few months to realise she needed to whatsapp me not use Facebook messenger
 
Sinbad2000 said:
You know, even if you're over someone, it's still a gut punch to see something like this (speaking from multiple experience...)

It's also OK to feel that - just try not to spiral or get obsessed.
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Yes, I was going to post this, despite having liked the more blunt "You need to move on/get off social media" replies.

The important part is to own the feelings and reflect on them, as you have done. I hope posting here allows you to do this, communicating thoughts is a brilliant way to get them in order.
 
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It's all very sad but "how much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood"?

Seriously thought you need a SM blackout then find someone else, you will soon forget about her once your getting some regularly.
 
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It's not easy to move on. Some can, some find it difficult. Like above, just get rid of anything that reminds you of her including facerubbish etc....

Hope things work out for you....
 
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How long has it been since you broke up? i assume a while if she has mett someone and it has progressed to marriage?

If there is one thing i have learned about relationships, it would be that no matter how happy someone else looks does not always reflect what is going on behind doors. And a women can go from madly in love to indifferent within the space of a day. Just takes the right guy at the wrong time.
 
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As other posters have inferred there is nothing to be gained by dwelling on it, but for reassurance purposes this is very normal reaction to seeing something like this. It's bound to open up all sorts of old memories and wounds. Dealing with that is part of life.

Onwards we march!
 
RxR said:
Some of the (fitness) advice in this topic maybe isn't suitable for someone whose had a stroke.
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And depending on how bad it it might be hard to fill the time if it's severely debilitating. :(
 
bloodiedathame said:
This is the sort of moment the tells you to focus on yourself.

Dwell and you’ll get stuck in a hole.
Put in the effort to make changes and you’ll see improvements in every aspect of your life. It might take some time but it’ll be worth it. (I’m talking fitness, lifestyle, hobbies, counselling etc)

Wouldn’t it be great if she saw you in a years time looking and feeling great, with a gorgeous girl on your arm…
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You know this chaps background and what happened, right?
 
Threepwood said:
I thought she was the one for me, it was meant to be us, not them, but I guess if she and I were meant to be, then I'd never had the stroke, and lost her in the first place!
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She left you because you had a stroke?
What a ****....!!

On the other hand, she is some other idiot's problem now and, having fallen for the trap, he'll have to deal with her BS while you have dodged that particular bullet.
Think of all the bad **** you no longer have to put up with... then forget it all and decide what you'd like to get up to today!!
 
Social media is a highlight real and only what they want people to see.
That is rough still. I had a similar experience on FB a year or so ago, not as much as a gut punch as that tho.
 
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