The first time we had a cat go missing we put posters up and asked around at neighbours and went for long walks in our spare time to try and find her. We had several phone calls from people saying they had spotted our cat but it was never her. A hell of a lot of getting up hope and then having it dashed. As it turns out the cat was run over the same day it disappeared but we only found that out when a lady came round with the little box of ashes she had from having it cremated. She had originally thought it was her cat but then hers had decided to come home after being missing for a few days. Both black cats so an easy mistake to make.
The second cat we owned also went missing and I didn't put a single poster up and only made the minimal effort to find her. Not because I didn't want her back and not because I'm a crappy owner. We just didn't want to go through the same heartache all over again. It was very out of character for both our cats to be missing for more than a few hours at a time and never overnight. Maybe she is alive and well somewhere but I wouldn't bet on it, she died the night she went missing I'm sure.
The second cat we owned also went missing and I didn't put a single poster up and only made the minimal effort to find her. Not because I didn't want her back and not because I'm a crappy owner. We just didn't want to go through the same heartache all over again. It was very out of character for both our cats to be missing for more than a few hours at a time and never overnight. Maybe she is alive and well somewhere but I wouldn't bet on it, she died the night she went missing I'm sure.