I was once (years ago this is as well) reported to my (temporary) manager by two female co-workers. My crime? I attempted to join in the conversation they were having.
I was a temp and only worked in their office for a week. In that time they basically refused to acknowledge my existence. They wouldn't say hello, ignored me if I greeted them, and generally just spent the whole day chatting to themselves whilst I worked in complete silence.
My (temporary) manager upheld their complaint. She pulled me aside and said they had no interest in talking to me, and that I was there to do a job and nothing more. I was strongly advised to keep quiet and not try talking to them again.
This was several years ago, and things have only got worse since. If you're ugly or socially awkward, even having a friendly conversation is impossible (with some girls).
Sorry to hear that.
I can only speak from my own experiences but:
1) I was once fired for a temp. job for the perceived ‘lack of effort’ and the assumption that I was a moron. Apparently I was no good at stacking paper into a machine and making coffee. Honestly, it was so humiliating. I don’t know how anyone came to that conclusion about me when I think I’m a hardworking and generally likeable person. Ultimately, if you are the tastiest strawberry in the world, you’re going to run into some ****s that hate strawberries for no apparent reason.
2) I can be charming and I do have charisma (and arrogance!) but I am absolutely not a good looking person. Average at best. Currently fat and now bald. Ffffff!
3) When travelling alone through various parts of the world I did feel slightly bullied by various groups of ‘established friends’ (strangers to me) and it made me feel really miserable and feel worthless.
4) I have been socially awkward towards girls and just a bit of a boob in the past (nothing serious, just lack of confidence and lack of social skills, on occasion).
5) I’m a ****ing 11/10 warlord that is liked and loved by great people. Frankly, anyone that doesn’t approve of me can *** on my prize winning marrow of a ****
I don’t really know what my point is but I would
try not to let your poop experience colour your view of the world too much, save for being duly sceptical from time to time. We all have it hard but as Rocky said...
“You me, or no one, is gunna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how much you can
get hit and keep moving forwards. How much you can
take and
keep moving forwards. That’s how winning is done!!!”