Thanks wing-manthis what im saying on a few ram kits i have you cant get the second timing tRCD lower than 19 and your XMP want to set 18 now you have it at 20 its playing nice.
my ram out of the box is 18 22 22 22 42 i can drop it to 15 20 16 16 36.
no matter what voltage or other setting i do tRCD will not drop below 20
you should find a Ryzen turned kit and copy the timing's then try to push the speed up, my kit will do 4200mhz on the lower timing but my IF wont pass 1900 so im running at 3800mhz.
i have this https://www.overclockers.co.uk/cors...ry-dual-kit-cmw16gx4m2z3600c18-my-4c1-cs.html
I’ve just bought some 32gb g skill for 90 quid on fleabay