A fear of thunder and lightening

Some good advice, i expected some unhelpful or sarcastic people though. I'm 25 now and its about time i cured this fear. This was the first step. I remeber playing left 4 dead 2 on the flood plains map having the sound quite loud when it started thundering in that i was like whoa **** till i realised it was in the gme and i was fine :eek:

Any one whos had a bad fear of something know its hard to control and its kinda embarrassing been frightend of something not many people are. My friend has a really bad fear of sharks he cant even look at a picture of a shark hes never seen jaws even if you mention sharks he goes ape.

My granddad was in the war and he got scared when it thunderd and lightend, it would remind him of the war and been under artilary fire and other such things. He past his fear on to my mum she was much worse then me. She would cry and shake and i would have to sit with her cause she didnt like been alone.

It also didnt help i was pretty much deaf for a big part of my life when i got my ears fixed everything seemed really loud even stuff like cars and buses. So when i first heard a storm for the first time and even other loud noises like fireworks it really shock me up.

When i moved out i got over my fear untill like i said a few years ago.It struck a building right near where i was the noise left left ringing in my ear and left me shaken up. The building caught fire as well would be quite scary for some one not frightend of storms but for me it really flicked a switch in my head and all the stuff from my childhood came back.

I will book in with my gp on monday and hopefully he can do something for me point me in the right direction. I'm moving to america soon California with it been hot there i would assume there storms get pretty bad so its something i need to sort out before i go over there.
 
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Perhaps you could put one over each hand to stop you posting extremely unhelpful and rude posts.

To the OP, ignore the morons like the above that just like to poke fun.

It was a bit of light hearted fun, get over yourself
 
Storms are one of the wonders that keep me gazing out of the window and even filming them, a man of the great outdoors i suppose.

But, a Hypnotist?
 
Best way to overclome your fear is to climb up the tallest tree and hold you hand in the air while holiding a long metal rod!! This will cure you fear once and for all! lol :D

Warning Kids: Do not try this at home!
 
I think the best way to handle it would be to confront it rather than hiding from it. Perhaps when a storm is coming take something to help you relax and then just watch the storm unfold. Eventually ween yourself off the relaxant.

Or you could just nut up and shut up.
 
could be worse you could have a epic fear of moths and jenny longlegs I honestly dont know why lol. I hate summer for this reason :(

Having never heard a daddy longlegs called a jenny before, I google image searched jenny longlegs, safe search off = win ! :eek:
 
Currently you associate thunder and lightning with negative memories.

Answer - create a new associations with something positive.

My suggestion - next thunderstom, persuade some REALLY hot girl to run around a field completely nekkid in the rain. When you inevitably join her out there - you'll build a new association - so any future thunderstorms will only bring positive feelings :)
 
Currently you associate thunder and lightning with negative memories.

Answer - create a new associations with something positive.

My suggestion - next thunderstom, persuade some REALLY hot girl to run around a field completely nekkid in the rain. When you inevitably join her out there - you'll build a new association - so any future thunderstorms will only bring positive feelings :)

I actually thought of this, next storm have sexy times with my gf and instead of been focused on the storm i would be focused on other things then go from there :P

Just talking about it has helped a lot also.
 
Having never heard a daddy longlegs called a jenny before, I google image searched jenny longlegs, safe search off = win ! :eek:

People always say this but if you look up urban dictionary your all wrong lol. Daddy longlegs is a massive spider up here. Jenny is the flying beasts with long legs.

must be a fife thing :p
 
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