a little problem

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hi everyone, i have a little problem with some lads at my school (i have posted on here as i dont know where else to go i dont want to tell my mum and dad, will explain why in a mo).

There are 3 lads at my school that i used to hang around with until one of them beat me up (for nothing) a year odd ago. i left it as long as possible till i went home because i didnt want my mum and dad to see the bruises on my face but when i finally had to go home later that night they were still visible and she made me tell her about it.

After that i stopped hanging around with them (which i would have done even if i hadnt got in a fight beause i realised they were **** heads and were starting to get into a lot of trouble) and everything settled down until earlier today as i was walking home, i saw 2 of the lads (the one that had beat me up wasnt there) and they started pushing me around and throwing stones at me, i wasnt about to hit them for 2 reasons 1. there was two of them and i was alone and 2. they are in a big gang at school and thats one of the reasons i dont want to tell my mum and dad because if i did i would get beat up by this gang of theirs and i dont want to tell a teacher for the same reason and i dont want to be a grass or you get that sort of reputation at my school (kind of sad really). i dont know why i posted this i just wanted to get it off my chest and tell somone i suppose :)

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Take and axe to school and make an example of the main kid,

On a serious note, talk to your teachers or bulk your self up.

KaHn
 
Dude, your doing well because the best thing is to tell somebody, even if its us!

Why exacly did the guy beat you up in the first place?did you tease him? Or did he just turn around and smack you for no reason?

You shouldnt have to go on living like this for a bunch of **** heads, go in and have a word with your headmaster, a private word, tell him everything and say if they find out you grassed they wouldnt be happy etc
 
Being bullied is a horrible situation to be in but really the only choice you have is to speak to your teachers and / or parents. They won't be able to do anything if they don't know about it.
 
How old are you?

Good idea is to do weights etc

If you do get confronted again by 2 of them like what happened, just run away mate :)
 
In case you're not sure of the situation and you think they might be messing around, they're not. They are bullying you. You've made a good start by getting it off your chest and asking for advice.
Unfortunately, telling the school in most cases doesn't get you very far. It depends on your school though. Is there a particular teacher that you get on well with and can talk to in confidence? If so, go see him/her and ask for advice.

If your parents don't already know that it has happened again, tell them. They will help you. Telling someone DOES NOT make you a grass or a tout. The sooner you tell people, the sooner you can give these scrotes what they deserve. If you go through the right channels and your school takes it seriously, you should no longer have to worry about these bullying scumbags.

Good lad for getting it off your chest, you're on the right tracks :)
 
Something I rarely ever did at school was hit back at bullies, and i'll tell you now they won't punch something thats gonna hurt them back.

Eg: Fire, spikes or you. :)
 
comp builder said:
im 14
i aint doin weights im too lazy :D i do a few pull ups, sit ups, push ups etc but apart from that i lazy :)
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Well no offence they are probably bullying you as you are an easy target. Sorry but if your not willing to help your self then its best you just tell your parents they can deal with it for you.

KaHn
 
Are the lads the same age as you?

If you cant/wont tell anybody (bar us) I am sure these noobs will mature in the next year or so and it will all go away :)

Just stick in there :D
 
no they are about a year older than me (im in yr 10 they in yr 11) except for another lad that was in the gang (he never touched me) he is 2 years older and when that lad beat me up he recorded it on his mobile, sick *******
 
oh, mate I would tell your parents, they will then ring the school and sort these people out, and because they are a year older, they will definitely get sorted out.

Like the other guy says, put a brick in your bag or something and swing it at them :D
Or get your older brother if you have one to have a word with them
 
OK, some real world advice here.

Treat it for the moment as a one off event.

You have history with them but it may never happen again.

My advice is to let what happened rest unless it happens again. In which case tell your parents first before your school.

That's my advice. :)
 
I don't know if this is your sort of thing but it worked for me when I was a bit younger than you...

I had a bit of trouble with bullies when I was about 11 and it got to the stage where I'd had enough. I went absolutely psycho one day, kicking, punching and biting any of them who came near me. I absolutely went buck mental. I had to be pulled off them.

I never had any trouble after that. The only downside was that I had a reputation for being the kid who was messed up in the head.
 
I was where you are a few years younger than yourself.

Firstly don't worry about being a grass. Why? Because it only matters in the playground. Secondly, speak to a teacher, someone you can confide in.

Secondly bulking up will do nothing (maybe get you some attention from the opposite sex though ;) ). Although we would all love to fight back you are right as you are outnumbered, and even if you take one on, they are likely to want payback if you hurt them. Plus it doesn't win you any points with the teachers when you are trying to explain you are being bullied.

Also don't let it get to you. Chin up and remember that they are **** heads as you described :D
 
KaHn said:
Well no offence they are probably bullying you as you are an easy target. Sorry but if your not willing to help your self then its best you just tell your parents they can deal with it for you.

KaHn
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i aint a square or a loner or anything if thats what you mean i am quite popular just obviously not with these lads
 
I wouldnt treat is as a one off, he could be walking down the street and they just kick the **** out of him again, I wouldnt want that to happen to my child.

Tell your parents NOW
 
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