a little problem

stevechapman said:
How old are you?

Good idea is to do weights etc

If you do get confronted again by 2 of them like what happened, just run away mate :)
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the first point must be a joke as its not related to being able to fight in any way what so ever.
2nd point is the best advice.

on another note, go tell someone more official :]
 
Why do they bully you exactly?

When I was at school people had to be a bit wierd to get full on bullied.

Sure, everyone got the crap kicked out of them once in a while. But not many got bullied day in, day out.

imo if you get beat up once, I'd just treat it as a seperate thing to being bullied. Being bullied is being beat up by like 2+ people every day.

Oh, and if it was me in your situation. When the gang come and approach you, drop the nut on the biggest one of them. If you're gonna get beat up anyway you might as well stand up for yourself a bit.
 
i dont get beat up day in day out as you said everyone has the crap beaten out of them and im just one of them. i aint weird (or at leastid like to think so) i aint gay and i aint fat or nuffinor square or a mosheror a teachers pet (infact most of them dont like me which is why i feel i cant tell them anything, not that i would if they did like me:) )

i dunno why they pick on me they just have nothing else to do and they think they are "ard" i might try doing what the last person who the bullied did, invite them round for a camp out in the garden and chase them round the garden with a hammer :D

i dont get bullied or picked on by anyone else except them, they just go around the village annoying everyone they nick old peoples milk and bread and whatever they have delivered they shoplift and get in loads of trouble with police (which is one reason i stopped hanging around with them). they think people are scared of them but they aint its just their gang they are scared of they are part of a gang that has about 30-40 lads in and most of them have a reputation for fighting
 
they have to be a bit weird to get full on bullied at my school (e.g gay, litterally, mosher goth (i have nothing against them its just how it works in my school you know majority rules and the majority are chavs) etc)
 
i would be wary who you tell, i had some problems being bullied non school related (we had a shared school bus, used to get beat up by lads from other school).

Went to the head of year to tell him, next day i get called away and he goes into the class room and asks the whole class about it :eek:

The lads on the bus were 3-4 years older and i doubt i would recognise them now, but i would punch the teacher if i saw him, he made my life hell at school having the **** taken about above incident :(
 
christ how imbarrassing you shouldnt have told teacher in that case you should have told the ardest mates or lads you could find and say these lads from the other school said somthing about them and then these lads would get beat up 1. because they are from a different school and 2. because they supposedly said somthing about them (well thats how it works at my school)
 
that really has got to be extremly embarrassing how long did the **** taking last, would you even punch him if he was an old man on a walking stick??
 
Just simply ignore them, but if they hit or kick you just fight back plus i live quite close to Stoke-on-Trent so call me. ;)
 
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If something like this happened to me, scare the gang into next week by -

Zooming into school with an Air Pistol and if they start anything whip it out, its amazing what puffs people appear when the threat of a 1000FPS pellet hitting them in the gut arises.

Thats what I would do, wouldnt take any crap tbh.
 
Talk to your parents as calmly as possible and tell them how you want to deal with it.
i.e that you want them to know that something is going on but that you do not want them to deal with it themselves at this moment.
Your parents really do need to know about it and your concerns that they might make it worse if they get involved.

Have you spoken to any of your mates about this, do any of them get the same hassle?

edit: All the comments about hitting people with bricks and snooker balls are best ignored, you certainly do not want to escalate the problems or increase the amount of violence being used against you.

Perhaps some of the bigger people that you are mates with could occasionally bump into you at the school gates and wander back in the direction of your house with you so that these muppets get the hint that you're not quite as easy a target as they'd like.
 
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This is probably bad advice, but when I was at school I guess I was bullied a bit. I decided one day that I had enough and attacked one of the main culprits when he was alone. Goes without saying after that day most people left me alone because they thought I was a psycho :p I ended up getting into trouble for it, but it was worth it for them to leave me alone.
Telling a teacher about it is not always the best way, because well if they find out your are going to get more pain. I would tell your parents though, if you feel they are the type who won't get carried away about it, and also they know if you decide to fight back it was not your fault. All these people who say don't fight back have likely never been in this situation. If you let them walk all over you they will.
 
comp builder said:
hi everyone, i have a little problem with some lads at my school (i have posted on here as i dont know where else to go i dont want to tell my mum and dad, will explain why in a mo).

There are 3 lads at my school that i used to hang around with until one of them beat me up (for nothing) a year odd ago. i left it as long as possible till i went home because i didnt want my mum and dad to see the bruises on my face but when i finally had to go home later that night they were still visible and she made me tell her about it.

After that i stopped hanging around with them (which i would have done even if i hadnt got in a fight beause i realised they were **** heads and were starting to get into a lot of trouble) and everything settled down until earlier today as i was walking home, i saw 2 of the lads (the one that had beat me up wasnt there) and they started pushing me around and throwing stones at me, i wasnt about to hit them for 2 reasons 1. there was two of them and i was alone and 2. they are in a big gang at school and thats one of the reasons i dont want to tell my mum and dad because if i did i would get beat up by this gang of theirs and i dont want to tell a teacher for the same reason and i dont want to be a grass or you get that sort of reputation at my school (kind of sad really). i dont know why i posted this i just wanted to get it off my chest and tell somone i suppose :)

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Jee man. That sucks, well one thing you must do is stand up for yourself. If you beat the hardest up you'll be lucky enough to get them scared and to leave you alone. They think you won't do anything, that's why they're probably still pushing you around as if you're dirt.

Stand up, be a man, call shotgun and beat them at their own game. Forget the gang, shows that they need a gang to be at the top, unlike you, you'd probably do it alone :).
 
As a parent i wish i could give you some simple advice and it worked out but these things always end up more complicated than you anticipate.

Back when i was a kid, my dad always said, if someone picks on you, smack them in the face, they never bother you again. It worked for me but i cant advocate violence in any form for you.

As people have said, just hope it sorts itself out and if not tell parents/teachers, dont suffer over these arses.
 
Get a Multishot PCP air rifle and shoot them all in the knee-caps, then carry a water pistol and make them think its an air pistol ;)
 
iViper said:
Get a Multishot PCP air rifle and shoot them all in the knee-caps, then carry a water pistol and make them think its an air pistol ;)
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Comments like that don't help mate, plus it would probably end up with armed police being called out. :p

I hate it when I hear about stuff like this, really tears me up inside as even though I was never bullied myself I remember kids who were and how you feel powerless to help them. (Out numbered etc)

I wish I was a bit more beefy in my early teens, could have really helped a mate out if I didn't feel so damn weak. :(

Anyway...

You say your teachers won't help, and if that's the way you feel then maybe your right. But you need to tell someone close to you. Be it your parents, or some of these older lads you know.

This may turn out to be a one off, and they leave you alone but why risk it. Ask for help, it doesn't make you a coward or a grass. It puts you in a stronger position to fight back.

Good luck with this mate, and I hope you sort it out. ;)
 
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