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And its people like you with your attitude that's the problem with this country
Abit of help with my uni interview tomorrow
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I think not, this country wants to ask a question and get all the damn answers. How about you use some common sense and hard work and do it yourself. If not move aside and let someone who does want to do the hard work have the place.
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Well, this escalated quickly.
1) What pills is she taking and where is she getting them from? - anti-depressants may not be the worst course of action but only when prescribed properly taking into account her age/size etc. These need to come from an authorised source only.
2) Besides the obvious distress, is there anything else concerning her such as some form of anxiety about the household administration. Maybe she feels she needs to take on her mums responsibilities and is panicking that she can't do this.
3) How is her dad doing in all of this. To what extent is he aware of her distress and subsequent actions? Is he handling it any better? If not is she concerned about him on top of everything else?
4) Is she avoiding her friends or are her friends avoiding her? Maybe her friends don't want to come round as her mum died in the property. Maybe arranging for them to meet elsewhere with the offer of transportation.
5) Regards the schoolwork, presumably her teachers know the situation. Have any concessions been made for late submissions? If not, then something to arrange.
6) Has she received (or been offered) any counselling? If not then she could be put in touch with several resources for this.
7) Does she have any ability to remove herself from the home environment? A stay with relatives or friends could give her a chance to reduce her stress levels if being in the house just brings it all back.
You've probably gone to bed and won't read any more replies, but good luck for tomorrow!
2) Besides the obvious distress, is there anything else concerning her such as some form of anxiety about the household administration. Maybe she feels she needs to take on her mums responsibilities and is panicking that she can't do this.
3) How is her dad doing in all of this. To what extent is he aware of her distress and subsequent actions? Is he handling it any better? If not is she concerned about him on top of everything else?
4) Is she avoiding her friends or are her friends avoiding her? Maybe her friends don't want to come round as her mum died in the property. Maybe arranging for them to meet elsewhere with the offer of transportation.
5) Regards the schoolwork, presumably her teachers know the situation. Have any concessions been made for late submissions? If not, then something to arrange.
6) Has she received (or been offered) any counselling? If not then she could be put in touch with several resources for this.
7) Does she have any ability to remove herself from the home environment? A stay with relatives or friends could give her a chance to reduce her stress levels if being in the house just brings it all back.
You've probably gone to bed and won't read any more replies, but good luck for tomorrow!