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Thanks everyone for responding, and for the inflation calculator x3 
I agree with much of the sentiment in this thread, but of course family relationships can be complicated. I'm just trying to look at the big picture, about life after the funds are distributed and how this might impact the remaining relatives.
As far as the will is concerned I know that the case manager intends to split the estate as per the will unless they get written instructions from all beneficiaries agreeing otherwise.
So by doing nothing, I will end up with an equal share as per the will. However, the relative in question did live in the property after the deceased went into care. Had they moved out, the property would have been sold to put towards those care costs. They also paid for some maintenance costs.
My stance (not boxing) is that while I acknowledge the above, I don't agree in principle with what the relative proposes, which is that because they paid into 7 years of a 25 year mortgage, a third of the current value should go to them, to take into account what they paid in mortgage payments and maintenance costs. Then, whatever is left of the property value is split evenly, including them.
I'm willing to consider an informal agreement to give them a slightly larger share, but it was not their property to invest in, therefore they should not benefit from a straight share of the current value.
The ball is firmly in my court on this, whatever beneficial interest they think they might have.
Thanks again folks, it's something to think about.

I agree with much of the sentiment in this thread, but of course family relationships can be complicated. I'm just trying to look at the big picture, about life after the funds are distributed and how this might impact the remaining relatives.
As far as the will is concerned I know that the case manager intends to split the estate as per the will unless they get written instructions from all beneficiaries agreeing otherwise.
So by doing nothing, I will end up with an equal share as per the will. However, the relative in question did live in the property after the deceased went into care. Had they moved out, the property would have been sold to put towards those care costs. They also paid for some maintenance costs.
My stance (not boxing) is that while I acknowledge the above, I don't agree in principle with what the relative proposes, which is that because they paid into 7 years of a 25 year mortgage, a third of the current value should go to them, to take into account what they paid in mortgage payments and maintenance costs. Then, whatever is left of the property value is split evenly, including them.
I'm willing to consider an informal agreement to give them a slightly larger share, but it was not their property to invest in, therefore they should not benefit from a straight share of the current value.
The ball is firmly in my court on this, whatever beneficial interest they think they might have.
Thanks again folks, it's something to think about.