Advices needed : Relationship

Leodido

Leodido

Leodido

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last week-end i met this really nice girl, and we went out to party friday and saturday, we chatted a lot but we weren't really alone, there was her mate and a friend of mine. It was a lot of fun, then thursday we went out again and it was a blast, this friday same. Thing is im really a shy guy and i kinda lost my self confidence(lot of mmo involved and not getting out), she seems like a shy girl as well so it could be a good point for me. So now i'd really like to set things so she knows that i feel this way but i dont really know how i could do that, i keep telling myself she 's kinda attracted by me, she never rejected me so im hoping she is just waiting for me to do the move, but on the other way i know her only for like one week maybe she will think im putting too much pressure on her. Need advices hoping i dont sound too pathetic :o
 
i had many occasions to tell her tonight but i just couldn't, i need to grow some balls sometimes i was like petrified.
next try tomorow i hope... cheers
 
i didn't make it out to be a omg date, it was nice we chatted a lot till the bar closed but i lost my balls somewhere and i was so afraid she would reject me i couldn't ask her the way she liked me, on the other hand if she always says yes to go out with me it's surely she likes me so i dont really want to sound stupid about it but if i dont say anything it will be even more hard not really knowing...

I'll ask her out again... :p
 
i wont let her wait anymore, i cant it's killing me , i didnt tell her so now i keep thinking about her and i still dont know for real she likes me but it cant be that bad i must tell her.
 
she texted me telling me she is busy this evening but she texted right when she got back from work and said we should do that again ! :D
 
do you guys think i should wait a few days or till next week-end before asking her out again? or straight tomorow night?
 
When I was younger I probably missed out on loads of opportunities because I kept waiting for more signals or convincing myself that a girl wasn't interested when she actually was.
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yeah i'm kinda like that, i wanna change but it's hard. Guess i should go more often for it and dont worry about it.

My advice is to strike while the iron is hot. Better to be rejected and know, than miss an opportunity and watch her ride off into the sunset with some other chap simply because he showed his interest.
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yeah i think you are right ;)
 
he was going to ask her out, i already did that :D ! more seriously yeah i should be more alpha and i'll be this week-end or im gonna hate myself forever

sometimes i wish i could just COOLDOWN i mean come on why should i be nervous about it
 
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Fubsy said:
Any progress Leodido?
The girl I asked for drinks sometime next week has asked me to go the cinema with her tonight :eek:
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nice to hear it mate :p

On my side, im going to ask her out tomorow, like we did last week will see what she says but im confident she will say yes! Yeah like im confident... ;)
 
i asked her out again, and she said she was going to go out with her female friends, but she said we should arrange it later. Thing is it's the third time she tells me that. Starting to think she is just being nice to me because she cant tell me to **** off...
 
yes and it's really sad because you cant really do anything against it beside keeping up and hoping it goes away sometimes...
 
So i finally made the move yesterday, patheticly but i did it at least ;)

She said that she didn't know what she wanted these times :confused:, but she also said she thinks im a really nice guy :o but that for now she don't really want to think about it much.

Im quite confused with her answer :D, it doesn't really change anything, i know im going to see her again, guess im just going to keep it cool and see where it gets...
 
i'd like if she would chase me about :p Anyway again this week-end i saw her all days so surely when you dont like someone you dont go seeing him all days and we are going at some party tonight.. On the other hand we also have a few common friends so.. anyways it was great fun i guess it's the important part.

Also as she is really shy i "hope" she just want to know me more before telling me how she feels, and to see if i'm really interested in her and not just a sex thing
 
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