Age Diff In Relationships?

Generally speaking people who get with someone at a very young age will invariably stay with them for a long period of time. Why shouldn't they - they've not had a single life, so they are used to it. It's the norm for them.

IMHO, it's robbing them of a lot of their youth..
 
Aod said:
Hmmmm, i'm 17.

my hawt Economics teacher is about 27...

Hmmmmmm.

;)
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live the dream! :D

I have had a good range age differances and all have been great. My last serious(ish) relationship was with 18 year old when I was 30, some will think thats to much but things went well with the age differance never being a problem :)
 
Cryfreeman said:
live the dream! :D

I have had a good range age differances and all have been great. My last serious(ish) relationship was with 18 year old when I was 30, some will think thats to much but things went well with the age differance never being a problem :)
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i don't think it would ever happen unfortunately :(

i'm not the only one vying for her affections, and she's religious (no sex before marriage) and she seems to be somewhat well in the head.

:(
 
knip said:
Id say if you were worried about it then your not that into her.
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Fair point; if I was nearly 20, single and someone I fancied under the age of 30 asked me out then I'd go for it. Age only really matters if it causes other potential issues (e.g. one partner wanting kids when the other one doesn't).
 
Age diffs ?

Well..

My sister is 21... and Her Boyfriend is 40 something..


I ripped the CARP out of her when I found out.. He's old enough to be her dad :o

But I get along with him alright so its not too bad now :p
 
5 or 6 years isn't really anything in the grand scheme of things. The biggest problem you'll find I expect is that she will likely be A LOT more mature that you. As long as that isn't a issue, or you're really mature for you age or whatever then do it :)
 
[TW]Fox;10312700 said:
Generally speaking people who get with someone at a very young age will invariably stay with them for a long period of time. Why shouldn't they - they've not had a single life, so they are used to it. It's the norm for them.

IMHO, it's robbing them of a lot of their youth..
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It is a lot like "the grass is greener on the other side". If you are in a long term relationship, you wonder about being single or simply enjoy dating. If you are single, you long for someone to settle down with. People always wonder; I certainly do.
 
DB_SamX said:
It is a lot like "the grass is greener on the other side". If you are in a long term relationship, you wonder about being single or simply enjoy dating. If you are single, you long for someone to settle down with. People always wonder; I certainly do.
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very true.... i suppose if you're wondering that then you are in the wong relationship. :confused:
 
knip said:
Id say if you were worried about it then your not that into her.

I was 20 and went out with a 35 year old, it lasted 2 and a half years, then I went out with someone two years younger and my last relationship was with someone 4 years older than me.
The age difference, either older or younger didnt matter in any of the relationships and it certainly wasnt the reason any of them broke up.
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I wish all girls throught the same. I recently met a nice girl who seemed to like me. But she was inititially confused at my age and thought I was older than I was. When I later made it clear she seemed most upset and didn't seem interested at all the klast few times aI met here.

I'm 24, and at a guess she is 28-29. 30 tops. I really don't care about age, well maybe I do. I like older more mature girls because in my experience girls < 25/27 are very immature. So maybe she thinks the same....:confused:
 
helpimcrap said:
very true.... i suppose if you're wondering that then you are in the wong relationship. :confused:
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Not at all. When I was single, I used to long for a long term gf, which I have found and love. But I always wonder (not seriously) about how things would be if I had chosen otherwise, not just in relationshions, but like career, living where, etc, etc...
 
Mate of mine's parents have 30 years between them >.<

His dad was 30 odd when his mum was born !!!

But yea the maths posted above is the truth :)

I wish girls I knew would ask me out :p

MILK IT !
 
D.P. said:
I wish all girls throught the same. I recently met a nice girl who seemed to like me. But she was inititially confused at my age and thought I was older than I was. When I later made it clear she seemed most upset and didn't seem interested at all the klast few times aI met here.

I'm 24, and at a guess she is 28-29. 30 tops. I really don't care about age, well maybe I do. I like older more mature girls because in my experience girls < 25/27 are very immature. So maybe she thinks the same....:confused:
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100% agree. Every girl I've ever gone out with has been older than me by at least 4 years, the widest age gap was 7 years but practically every girl younger than 25/26 that I've met seem to think that they can't possibly have a good and meaningful time with a guy younger than them. Like we hit 25 and suddenly there's a magical transformation where we go from being boys into being men. It's totally bizarre but w/e their loss tbh. I remember having a great time with a 23 year old girl, we got on so well and everything seemed to click until she found out I was 20 and suddenly I became toxic to her - unbelievably weird.

To the OP - no 5/6 years is nothing. Think of it this way, if she turns out to be the love of your life will it matter that when you're 30, she's 36? or when you're 50 she's 56? Put it into perspective.
 
Age gaps when ** 19 and upwards dont really matter as much(as long as both parties are older than that) but it does help when you can talk to girls hitting on you rather than "git tae ****" cause i couldnt be arsed talking to her :( FAIL.

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