All things equal...Would you be single or commited?

ElRazur · 7 Mar 2007 at 12:53

If you have all or most of the things you need, would you rather be in a proper relationship or just be player?

Taking the pro and cons of each into account what would you rather be - Single (player) or commited?

In the favourite word of someone " i havent seen the woman that she is able to make me leave the rest of the other beautiful ladies"......On that note i know where I would stand if given the choice.

Cookie-Monster · 7 Mar 2007 at 12:56

i'd go with the serious relationship all things being equal.

SGCWill · 7 Mar 2007 at 12:57

If I had everything that I needed/wanted then I wouldnt even need to bother with a relationship would I now? - no matter how good a player you are, all it takes is for one woman to screw it up for you.

CookieRocks · 7 Mar 2007 at 12:57

I'd rather be in a proper relationship, as whats the point having everything if you have nobody to share it with.

Mr Nice · 7 Mar 2007 at 12:58

Cookie-Monster said:
i'd go with the serious relationship all things being equal.

Yep, who wants to be "the old man in the club"?

ElRazur · 7 Mar 2007 at 12:59

Guys i meant single as in seeing other women but with no strings attached.

SteveOBHave · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:00

Nah, tis good having a better half

Wouldn't give it away for all the world.

james.miller · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:02

i dont like being single, at all. given the chance id jump in to a relationship, it just suits me better.

Yas786 · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:03

Well at my old age id rather be with someone ie relationship which i am in now for the past 2 yrs. Back in my younger days i loved being a playa but i guess as you grow older you tend to mature more...well thats what happened to me. Kinda got fed up of having random gfs who werent there when i needed them the most.

SunaseIPs · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:03

ElRazur said:
If you have all or most of the things you need, would you rather be in a proper relationship or just be player?

Taking the pro and cons of each into account what would you rather be - Single (player) or commited?

In the favourite word of someone " i havent seen the woman that she is able to make me leave the rest of the other beautiful ladies"......On that note i know where I would stand if given the choice.

I thought you were gay by reading some of your posts, apologies.

On that note I think single for now I am far too young to settle, is there a rush?

2Thumbs · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:04

Deffinatly the latter.

Sleeping around could be fun (not the potential cocktails of STD's though) for a couple months I guess. But it's great having a proper connection with someone that you really care about.

CookieRocks · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:04

ElRazur said:
Guys i meant single as in seeing other women but with no strings attached.

There are ALWAYS strings, no matter how vague they might appear.

gjrc · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:06

commited... in general as you get older i think you want to settle down more.

i am single at the moment and loving it, but if the right girl came along i would jump at the chance to settle down.

SGCWill · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:08

OK, so how many of you have settled for someone who you don't really mind, but KNOW there is someone that you actually want 100%

I don't settle for anything less than what I want, been in a few relationships with randomers and it was just hassle, and took all my time, where as the one which i was remotely interested in was the best time spent ever.

If you can find someone who makes you truly happy then yes, go for her, otherwise just play the field until someone comes along!

ElRazur · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:09

SunaseIPs said:
I thought you were gay by reading some of your posts, apologies.

Very funny, coming from a guy who makes post about trainspotting and toilet seats

Yas786 · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:09

CookieRocks said:
There are ALWAYS strings, no matter how vague they might appear.

Indeed financial or emotional strings always have a funny way of appearing when you least expect them to...no such thing as no strings attached

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ElRazur · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:10

CookieRocks said:
There are ALWAYS strings, no matter how vague they might appear.

I dont know what kind of experience you had but i have had few where there is no strings attached whatsoever.

4T5 · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:10

Last 8 plus years Single but riding and i am an old git. My 30's were great as the range of woman available for Adult fun is high and with women over 25 there's none of that messing about. Into my 40's i would like a partner but then whenever i am with someone there life invades mine and interferes with my mellow lifestyle. I still do well for riding so things ain't so bad.
I s'pose answering the O.P i would say i would rather be with one person but Only the right person. Most women i seem to end up with are Nutters & far to emo for me. Give me a conservative lady with decorum but an insatiable desire for a bit of ruff anytime.

Dave · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:10

Cookie-Monster said:
i'd go with the serious relationship all things being equal.

Same

The concept of being a "playa" doesn't really suit me!

ElRazur · 7 Mar 2007 at 13:15

I dont understand why some are choosing to be commited....I mean you have the monies, fast and sex cars, good house, good looking, fat wallet.....Come on guys wont you wanna sample as many ladies as you can?