Almost 30, bit of an emo rant.

Woden said:
Luckily I seem to be OK for that, my grandparents still have full heads of hair! :D
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Yeah, I'm alright in the hair department too thankfully, but the weight just seems to pile on these days, all this sitting in front of a PC doesn't do me any good at all. I don't even bother going on the scales these days :D

The only bit of advice I can give you is to not worry about things - life has a habit of working out fine, and don't compare yourself to others, live your own life, be yourself. :)

Edit : and respect your elders! ;) :D
 
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Woden said:
Little over 3 years now.
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Don't worry about it, someone will come. Try do things to occupy yourself, go out with some friends, go on a holiday, do something!

it's been about 3 years since i last had a relationship, although i would like to meet someone, it doesn't bother me anymore that i haven't. Just chilling with friends is enough. :)
 
Hay just think you're a white male in the UK with a job and roof over your head.

How more lucky do you want to be.
 
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Life starts at 30 :D

Life is too short - you need to make the most of it! As shoot1st mentioned above - years seem to go quicker the older you get..

Had a big shock to the system with the birth of my first child about 4 months ago and also the death of my father a couple of months ago. I'm keen to do more of what I have been holding back in the past and putting off for another time.
 
Woden said:
So I hit the big three-ohh in May. Is it normal to resent this so much? I just feel so old, which is stupid, I know its not really that old. Doesn't help that I am surrounded by teenagers at work I guess :p

I got stuck in a bit of a rut when I split with the ex. Back at my parents house since she took everything with her (well except the debts :rolleyes:) and I simply can't afford to live on my own. Apart from a couple of 2 week romances, been single since, and that's getting to me.

It's just daft. I hate where I am in my life, but like where its going. My debts will be gone completely by the end of this year (hopefully sooner if nothing goes wrong), working on a degree to help me get a better job. If this were anyone but me I would be saying "well done", "getting things sorted", "right direction" and all that jazz. Just the last few weeks stuck thinking "What's the point".

Not really emo, not quite ready to /wrist, doubt I ever will be. My dads pretty grumpy, his dad too. Maybe a gene is kicking in?
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Don't worry about it, I hit some similar **** when I turned 30. Just get on with it. Clear your debts and move on from the crap
 
The one that bothered me was I 46 because it was the next age group on something I was filling in.
55 soon and I'm not bothered anymore.
 
I've done all the things I dreamed of when younger (wife, kid...house, car) so now I'm working on a new list. Focus on doing not living in the past.
 
Woden said:
It is literlary a few weeks I have been down over this. About a month ago I was actually pretty proud of myself lol.
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Its quite common for newly single people to be a bit down over the festive season, seeing couples/families together making you focus on what you lost/want. Either that or you have SAD :p
 
Sort the debt out, why is it all left for you?
Then sort your life out and stop moaning :)
 
Sort of know where you're coming from; I split with the ex in September after 9 years and was 30 last month. Living at the parents at the mo and will be for the next year or so.

Decided I'm gonna do all I can to make this a very good year; find some hobbies, go out with friends and try new things.
 
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