Knock it on the head champ, I've tried what you're probably about embark on. I was totally drained after 3 months of devoting my life to fighting for/ trying to save what was a terminal relationship.
Walk away now, before things get bloody and you risk losing diginity/repect.
You sound like me mate, and usually we come off worse. No relationship is worth fighting for if she's not willing to fight for the relationship too. It sounds like she has already tossed the towel in.
actually when I made it clear to her this moring that I dont believe in "taking a break" and it usually ends in a real thing so we might as well get it done and over with now, she asked me to give it a try because she doesnt us to break up.
Hmm..well as harsh as it sounds, and I hate to say it, but I think its probably doomed. Lets face it, if you do have trust issues, and the trust, or lack thereof, is causing problems when she is nearby imagine what kinds of problems the trust will cause when she is thousands of miles away in another country. God only knows what kinds of thoughts will be going through your head![]()
we have been together for almost 5 years, I have always trusted her and I believe she has never cheated on me.