The Issue with HEDT is that it caters for Niche use cases. I guess it used to be called workstation.
Lets face it, if someone really did need awesome multi core performance, they would already have or should buy a mutli socket Xeon or the new Epyc systems. The performance can be significantly faster, 2-4x. than Threadripper/SkylakeX. The caveat is price. There has to be a balance between waiting 4 days for a render vs 1 day vs the 1000's invested in the system. Time is money.. to a extent. These new offerings from both intel and amd are helping close the gap.
I see SkylakeX/Threadripper aimed not at gamers or Pros. But more at enthusiasts who like to have a dabble at both. Regardless of what Intel or AMD officially say, they are marketing them at both categories. Unfortunately currently neither excel at both, however do a good job in one area or suffer in the other.
Where things currently stand, and how I see it.
If your using the system to have the best performance number crunching , rendering, compute etc and game on occasion. Get a dual Xeon or maybe a EPYC system for the best performance.
If you sometimes render, and game on occasion and budget is tighter, threadripper seems like a fair solution. And exceptional value for the very high multicore performance
If you predominantly game and render on occasion, SkylakeX seems like a better solution.
If you just game and want the best, or wondering what all this new stuff is about, latest is best right ?, SkylakeX or threadripper may not be for you, performance is worse than other offerings especially notable with thread ripper.
If you want a single cpu/system that excels at everything, our only hope is the upcoming 18 core intel 7980XE. It should bring us a lot closer to a solution that doesn't make such performance compromises, keeping it tame however will not be fun, nor is the price tag. From the spec's it looks to be very promising.
None of this comes cheap, and the CPU's are only part of the equation, and can make up a smaller percentage of the overall system cost. Both the HEDT system from AMD and INTEL require expensive cooling. Powerful PSU's. Ram can cost even more than the cpus. Motherboard prices are bordering on the unreasonable side. Around £3000+ for x299/x399 for a configured system and £4000+ for the upcoming 18 core system. It's a tough time to be upgrading. Thankfully there are options, and if upgrading from a a existing system you can salvage some parts to make it hurt less.
Personally for me thread rippers multi core performance is awesome especially for the price, however it appears to have issues with latency due to communicating between the 2 chips/memory, and lackluster IPC make it overall disappointing. We knew well in advance its strengths, the reviews today show the flaws, and they are significant. System performance is significantly less than my HEDT system from 2014, although to be fair it does cost less too. I could have lived with the slower multi core but not the latency IPC & ram issues. Maybe I was hoping for too much.
I believe 8 Pack has the intel 18core 7980XE chip - lets hope for some wink's coming soon.
The bottom line is currently you have to make compromises, either 1 system that is either good at multi-core and suffers at other tasks, or 1 system that is great at other tasks and performs less at multi core.
The solution is clear. Two Computers.
One dual/quad cpu setup for multi-core type stuff, which it excels at. And another system for play which it excels at.
Edit - The above is from my perspective coming from a 2014 dual xeon2697
z10pe-d8 workstation. A awesome motherboard with 80 pci lanes, and around 4300 in cinebench if pushed. It is not a normal system, and for others thinking of upgrading from a regular desktop to SkylakeX or Thread ripper especially if chasing multicore will not be disappointed with the increased performance in that area.