Robboftw - A Flash enabled web browser is the main reason i will not get an iPad. I mean the lack of flash means when i go on for example - OCUK and someone has embedded a youtube vid i have no way of watching it there and then - why?
That and i don't like iOS's look and layout and lack of features such as a decent notifications system, widgets, tabbed web browser, customisability.
Hardware wise the design is second to none i agree, however there is a lot lacking. No SD slot, no HDMI out on the device (going to have to carry around the adapter everywhere you go), 4:3 format screen, lower res to the point where you can see pixelation at arms length (IPS Screen has nice colours and viewing angles i agree) the Ipad takes 7 hours to charge (c'mon you have to agree that is a joke), why have a camera on the back if its gonna be crap (less that 1MP). And it's not like the XOOM is ugly - it literately looks the same from the front. And other Android tablets will be out that will offer a wide variety of looks and sizes.
Apples App store is a lot better i agree - but it won't take long till there will be equivalents on the Android Market. And then the ipad will lose its trump card.
OS wise i see Android having way more potential look and feel wise . iOS seems dated and just looks like it gets patched for more features...looks wise it the same as iphone back in 2007.
So No the Ipad clearly isn't better as different people want different things.