So a few months ago I installed an ipod docking cable into the back of my headunit - slight alternator whine, but I grounded the ipod adapter unit and all was well and good. Recently got an ipod to 3.5mm jack adapter (yes I know, seems convoluted but is the easiest way!) so now I can plug my phone (or anything else with a normal output) into the headunit. Now this works great except that when I plug my phone in to charge at the same time as playing music, I get an annoying alternator whine - quite noticeable even with phone volume turned on max.
I've already grounded the adapter unit and there's a distinct 'silence' --> 'whine' --> 'silence' when I plug and unplug the phone from the car charger so that's not the problem. I'm not really sure where to look from here to solve the problem.
Any ideas? Is it possible that my cheapo adapter cable has not connected the ground on the 3.5mm jack to the ipod adapter? Would it even play music if that were the case?
Might it be fixed by jury-rigging the 3.5mm ground directly to the car's ground?
I've already grounded the adapter unit and there's a distinct 'silence' --> 'whine' --> 'silence' when I plug and unplug the phone from the car charger so that's not the problem. I'm not really sure where to look from here to solve the problem.
Any ideas? Is it possible that my cheapo adapter cable has not connected the ground on the 3.5mm jack to the ipod adapter? Would it even play music if that were the case?

Might it be fixed by jury-rigging the 3.5mm ground directly to the car's ground?