if you know what 'out of phase' sounds like, it will be obvious. my chav brother has an 'install' in his clio, i heard it in june time when hed put it in at xmas (6 months earlier)... hed has the fronts out of phase for 6 months
you cant trust chavvers with cars.
the easiest way to tell is play something moderately bassy. when out of phase, bass gets pretty much cancelled out