I was going to go, but couldnt get the time off work, but last week someone swapped a few shifts with me, but I thought instead of tell her Il be coming, I will surprise her by going over.
She doesn't get to see her parents as they live over there so is going as a holiday and to see her parents.
She will be taking the kids with her too and she said she dont want to go without me, so I told her I'll be fine just go and convinced her to go, but she is still down I wont be there to spend her birthday with her which she really wants as she wants to spend it as a family (me, her and our kids together).
Somewhere Outdoors would do, dont fancy just turning up at her parents and knocking on the door and going 'Surprise!' so want somewhere to meet her.