Anyone had an affair ?

snapdragon said:
Erm...

yes seem to be absolutely crap at being faithful

was with the ex for 5 years before an old flame turned up ( she's married ) had a "thing" for roughly twelve months during which time I split up from my partner but her hubby remained unaware.

then started seeing an old school friend, as I was on my way to our first date was arranging to meet another woman later on in the week, uhmm'd and ahh'd over both for 6 weeks then they both found out and I was rightly dropped

Started afresh with someone else and within 2 months was seeing the old flame again, that got knocked on the head, then at xmas this year went out with work and shared a taxi home with a lass from the office, erm....

Have just stopped seeing the girl from work, still have my partner who I've been with for 8 months now


am I allowed to call myself a **** ?
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Fingers crossed there other half's find out and put you in intensive care :).
 
snapdragon said:
Erm...

yes seem to be absolutely crap at being faithful

was with the ex for 5 years before an old flame turned up ( she's married ) had a "thing" for roughly twelve months during which time I split up from my partner but her hubby remained unaware.

then started seeing an old school friend, as I was on my way to our first date was arranging to meet another woman later on in the week, uhmm'd and ahh'd over both for 6 weeks then they both found out and I was rightly dropped

Started afresh with someone else and within 2 months was seeing the old flame again, that got knocked on the head, then at xmas this year went out with work and shared a taxi home with a lass from the office, erm....

Have just stopped seeing the girl from work, still have my partner who I've been with for 8 months now


am I allowed to call myself a **** ?
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One day one of those Partners is going to teach you a lesson you will never forget, be it physically or emotionally or if there is any justice both.
 
Nope, and the way I see it is if you wanna have an affair, why ya with ya current gal? Be single then you aint gotta worry about being caught...
 
Nope, no chance. My wife is too awesome TBH. I couldn't (and wouldn't) do something like that to her even if it was on a plate with no strings and had bells on. Horrible thought.
 
simisker said:
Just making sure: you are wishing extreme, life-threatening physical harm upon another, right?
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No, he is airing his distaste of the reprehensible actions of someone by the use of irony.:p

I, on the other hand, would kick his 'ead in if he done that to me......:eek: (in a forum friendly, non threatening, mod happy, hypothetical kind of way, of course)
 
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snapdragon said:
Erm...

yes seem to be absolutely crap at being faithful

was with the ex for 5 years before an old flame turned up ( she's married ) had a "thing" for roughly twelve months during which time I split up from my partner but her hubby remained unaware.

then started seeing an old school friend, as I was on my way to our first date was arranging to meet another woman later on in the week, uhmm'd and ahh'd over both for 6 weeks then they both found out and I was rightly dropped

Started afresh with someone else and within 2 months was seeing the old flame again, that got knocked on the head, then at xmas this year went out with work and shared a taxi home with a lass from the office, erm....

Have just stopped seeing the girl from work, still have my partner who I've been with for 8 months now


am I allowed to call myself a **** ?
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why don't you just stay single? you are obviously using your 'partner' as a safety net for when your bits on the side have had enough of you. you'll end up with nothing.
 
Jakeee said:
Theres not many people on the planet wit ha sex drive like mine, I think I've got an addiction :p
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If you are prepared to go live in Thailand my ex is there, and she would want to do it multiple times a night every night :)
 
GordyR said:
In these situations, your partner really should be mature enough to think about the shoe being on the other foot. How would she feel if you got a text from a girl every day calling you sexy?

It's not really about you not trusting her... Because I am certain you do...

But even though in all likelyhood it is completely innocent, in a good relationship with understanding and mutual respect, each partner should be aware of the other ones feelings and if anything go out of their way to ensure they are encouraging nothing that could breed an insecurity.

This is where women are frequently hypocritical. Though thankfully not all of them. My current girlfriend would not tolerate anyone other than me calling her sexy. If a guy friend did it once she would tell him that its not appropriate. If he did it twice, he would be removed from facebook/phone number deleted and ignored.

I wouldn't ever ask her to do the above, she just would. This is good as it breeds trust and has encouraged me to act the same with the women that come on to me, or any female friends I have who cross that line.
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Ok so i spoke to her saying how i don't like other men calling her sexy, and i should be the only man looking at you sexually, her response was that he was joking "WTF" how is any man joking about calling a taken women sexy, she seems to think it's ok or is she craving the attention, sounds to me like she's not taking my feelings into account. Yeah lets get women texting me calling me sexy and say that there only "joking"
 
Yeah, i decided to see whether i could do it with my left hand instead of my right hand, it didn't workout.
 
dave1983 said:
Ok so i spoke to her saying how i don't like other men calling her sexy, and i should be the only man looking at you sexually
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Seriously?

She cannot control what other men think. Why not just trust her and be flattered that you've got a girl that others find attractive?

Why do some guys seem to think they own girls?
 
dave1983 said:
Ok so i spoke to her saying how i don't like other men calling her sexy, and i should be the only man looking at you sexually, her response was that he was joking "WTF" how is any man joking about calling a taken women sexy, she seems to think it's ok or is she craving the attention, sounds to me like she's not taking my feelings into account. Yeah lets get women texting me calling me sexy and say that there only "joking"
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You actually serious? Because that's plain childish as she's practically receiving a compliment, not a mind ****.
 
snapdragon said:
Erm...

yes seem to be absolutely crap at being faithful

was with the ex for 5 years before an old flame turned up ( she's married ) had a "thing" for roughly twelve months during which time I split up from my partner but her hubby remained unaware.

then started seeing an old school friend, as I was on my way to our first date was arranging to meet another woman later on in the week, uhmm'd and ahh'd over both for 6 weeks then they both found out and I was rightly dropped

Started afresh with someone else and within 2 months was seeing the old flame again, that got knocked on the head, then at xmas this year went out with work and shared a taxi home with a lass from the office, erm....

Have just stopped seeing the girl from work, still have my partner who I've been with for 8 months now


am I allowed to call myself a **** ?
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Ill watch out for the "Partner cutts of gentlemen sausage as he lives a life of greed" line in the papers :P
 
dave1983 said:
Ok so i spoke to her saying how i don't like other men calling her sexy, and i should be the only man looking at you sexually
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Wow really? I'd be happy if people thought my misses was sexy! In fact it would be a turn on to know I have a woman that others desire!

Did you really tell her that you should be the only one who looks at her and thinks of her sexually?

No wonder this forum has so many heart break stories!!
 
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