Are you happy?

My life is in perfect ying/yang balance

I won £100, then the house alarm stopped working which cost me £116

Promotion at work, mrs employer cut her hours

When I feel happy, something comes out which makes me unhappy

so I am in a good place or not? lol
 
I find most things just leave me feeling a bit indifferent, so while I'm not desperately unhappy I wouldn't call myself happy either. I'd say the only times I'm truly happy are when I'm on holiday, playing sports/exercising in general, or doing something unfamiliar or new. I think that it's probably the drudgery of the same day-to-day routine that leaves me feeling a bit bored and discontented.

Hopefully in a few months I'll be doing some travelling. I get bored very easily and I think I need the travelling to discover and explore and have some new experiences.
 
Well I would say, generally I am happy. I have a wonderful GF and we have a beautiful daughter. Even though my situation with the house / money / job isn't anywhere near great. I'm more than happy to simply just have them.
 
No. But I should be. :confused:

I have a house, upgraded with garage, solar panels, new bathroom etc, nothing needs doing. I have a Porsche 911, no stresses currently. Just finished a year at college and did pretty good considering although wished I had done a little better. I have no job but I need to get one this year. I also want to go to university. Hopefully have my Class C lorry soon and a job. Then Class CE and a job.

I guess I just feel like I'm trying hard and applying for lots of things however none of it is coming off. It really cheeses me off the amount of times I get told how inspirational I am! That's a really nice compliment however it is not helping me achieve my life goals!!!

I'm kinda messed up I guess but I'd like a proper relationship - marriage and kids etc with someone and I keep making really stupid decisions!

I want the world and I want it now - but it's not happening!

I'm so close to jacking it all in. I have all these plans and wishes but I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall! I know I should feel like the luckiest man alive as I'm still alive despite 'dying' 3 times but far from it! I have a lot of things a lot of people don't and I've done a lot of things people haven't (like being featured in magazines/newspapers and giving speeches because of my 'inspirational attitude') but I want more! Frustration seems to be my buzz word.
 
I've finally met a woman who doesn't want kids as she has one already but he lives in Portugal, so yes I'm happy.
 
sports_brah said:
Sounds like a situation where throwing the keys back at the bank and walking could be viable. Change of country + scenery would do you some good.



As for myself, not really no. I'm in a decent job, but I know that I can do better myself. Trying to get out of the rat race of life.
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The rat race of life? Jesus are you not around 24-25?
 
Indifferent tbh. I should be more "carpe diem" after last year's dramas health-wise but meh.

Good job, well paid, tiny mortgage and loads of toys, no kids and no other debt. Ungrateful git. :)

I think I need a sabbatical or something.
 
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I'm not in a great spot at the moment but I'm an incurable optimist and I have a steady supply of willpower so I'm content leaning toward happy! :p
 
Personal life I'm very content with.

Professionally I need to push myself more but it's finding something I truly enjoy and isn't just for the salary I'm having difficulties with.
 
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