argh screwed up my first date ><

I didn't read all 3 pages so someone might have already said this. Apart from the good points made about being honest (was thinking that myself when reading your post) i'd imagine that she felt quite embarassed in front of her mates when her date left all of a sudden like that.

Imagine if you were out with your friends and introduced the girl you had just started seeing and she didn't really get involved and then left, you'd feel rather embarassed :)
 
Some girls are just hard work trying to have a conversation with .

Sounds like she did not make much of an effort to make your feel part of the group and was happy for you to stand alone on the sidelines as an accessory to make her feel good .

If she was keen on you she would have wanted to be next to you ,I would move on to the next one mate .
 
martinweston said:
It's been 2 days and you haven't spoke since?

If ya don't call or text soon, your options will be limited to doing nothing or becoming captain of the failboat.
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:D
 
tbz_ck said:
The principle of "comfortable silence" applies whatever the date. Do you advocate that every moment has to be filled with words (or sex)?

Body language and the unverbalised "message" in how we act or respond count for an awful lot in any relationship whether first date or otherwise. I've found over the years that there is great skill involved in interpreting the unverbalised and "transmitting" it, especially when woman are involved because they see that part of communication far more keenly than us males.
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Translation: I'm so antisocial the girls dig it

My imaginary girls that is
 
From your first post, sounds like she would have put out or gave a hand at the least, if you spoke more to her after the club that is (after her losing her ability to stand, giggity giggity - too many drinks)

You could try again I suppose if you really wanna meat spin her. That is, if no jello-man has stuck his fork in. If you have trouble talking, talk about 'her' ... ask her questions about jobs and decend her answers into questions or take a frig load of drugs and alcohol and let that do the talking.
 
tbz_ck said:
LOL !!!

Do you take a blunt instrument and hunting spear out with you on dates too :p ;)
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Yup, and if they suggest a taxi home, I usually just respond with "No it's fine save your money, i'll drag you by your hair back to mine".

It works 60% of the time, every time.
 
MoNkeE said:
That's nowt, I snapped my banjo string on my first date!
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I just got strange looks for bursting out laughing in the office!



Just ask her out as said try and start conversation talk about nonsense, women love it. Or if it dies just ask her for a quickie and you'll both be on your way, no point wasting time.
 
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