ARRG: A little rant

DragonWoLf · 4 Aug 2009 at 02:56

Is it just me or doesn't it tick you right off when you work so hard at or for something and then it blows up in your face >.< Worked so hard at uni for my grades and then got my results and its like an insult like "meh you fael" :mad:

2StepSteve · 4 Aug 2009 at 02:58

There is nothing worse really, especially when as you say you put in quite amount of effort, the same goes for many things and it is bloody depressing.

What are you studying?

bum · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:00

Did you struggle when studying for the said subject?

DragonWoLf · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:01

Studying a BSc in Business Information Systems, god I am so fracked off right now, I just wanna go and buy some smokes but I quit smoking so can't, arrg! Pardon my arrgh!!

EDIT: struggled in one unit, the rest I managed, day and night I studied, massive cramming sessions and all...for what..meh

MadMan-JaMeS · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:03

Meh i feel the same kinda way,

i'm allowed a promotion at work cos my gf is an assistant manager, now i cba to do anything cos i know i can't progress. Funny thing was they knew she was my gf when they employed me fools.

V4NT0M · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:04

TBH, as long as there's a particular reason I failed I'm ok with it, I can learn. But usually it's something completely random that destroys my hard worked for stuff, something I can't plan for.... When that happens I do get quite vexed.

Sone · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:05

if you never give up you never fail, try again if you feel its folding you back.

DragonWoLf · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:11

Skyfall said:
TBH, as long as there's a particular reason I failed I'm ok with it, I can learn. But usually it's something completely random that destroys my hard worked for stuff, something I can't plan for.... When that happens I do get quite vexed.

Kinda like me..wait that's exactly like me

Sone said:
if you never give up you never fail, try again if you feel its folding you back.

Sone I sometimes I tell myself that but then all doubt comes into my head and then I fall deeper into my hole of abyss

bum · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:13

Perhaps pick yourself up and find the root of the problem eh, old chap. My mate did this subject as Msc and I know it's a bloody hard and confusing subject. Maybe you took it the wrong direction as the professors wanted it?

DragonWoLf · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:37

I guess bum, I just feel like total crap right now, brb I'm going to wallow in my pity in the corner with heavy metal blaring..

Sone · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:39

DragonWoLf said:
Sone I sometimes I tell myself that but then all doubt comes into my head and then I fall deeper into my hole of abyss

As Rocky says, its not about how hard you can hit, its how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.

It won't feel like it for a long time but this is a minor setback in the grand scheme of things. Try and get out with friends/GF and have a break. You need to back away from the issue before you will see it clearly.

There is no rush to decide what to do for corrective action (if indeed any is needed!) So just take your time and make no rash decisions.

zetec452 · 4 Aug 2009 at 03:54

There's always a positive to failure, you can't see it yet but down the road something will come up.

As others have said, pick yourself up and crack on. You'll do fine.