What kind of advance are you talking about? he lives with his parents, what kind of pressure do you think he's under to get all that in advance??
I think it's fair to ask them to cover any storage costs. I don't quite get what you mean by reimbursing for extra's they've overcharged for though. If you've already paid for extra's to the house then you paid at the time without complaint so have no case for arguing about being overcharged. Extra's are never cheap.
In your shoes I would push for them to cover any extra charges you've incurred and that is a very fair thing to do. You can still be polite but firm and demanding so demand you want to know exactly why things are being delayed and you want an accurate move in date.
I bought a new build not long ago and one thing I advise to do is to get in and check everything works and no leaks. Also read up a bit on all the legal docs....somehow building control missed the fact mine didn't have a post-install electrical installation certificate but found nobody wanted to take the blame - not even the council for missing the incomplete docs
Maybe they're not using the ridiculous American system of putting the month before the day when explaining dates and your been talking about completely different dates?
I'd be basically just wanting compensation for the inconvenience they've caused.
The sense of entitlement is strong in this one.
What was the date on the contract as you said Jan/Feb initially, just because someone 'phoned' and said it should be ready in December doesn't mean it is (they can even deny the call was made, do you have proof?) and the neighbours being in doesn't mean you're house is all signed off and ready.
You need to check the contract and if they have you in by the time it states on there you'll not get anything.
You know house builders have their half-year results end of June and their full year end of December.
So obviously they wanted to complete on your house by Dec 15th to include in their results. As you opted against their attention will have been focused on the other houses nearing completion instead.
It's a horribly corrupt business really, rush, rush, rush with attention to detail and quality being an afterthought.
Get a thorough snagging inspection done by a professional firm before you move in.
Unless you have a contact saying you'll complete one a certain date I think you'll struggle to get anything out of them unless they are being generous. Why wouldn't you complete before xmas? sounds like they knew they'd be busy and wanted to get you out of the way.
I spent the first night in my house on a camp bed, if you cant handle inconvenience for a few weeks then perhaps being a home owner isn't for you as it'll likely be more of an inconvenience for you when you come to move.
The take away from this is don't do anything until you have a completion date on a contract.
Buying a house when you haven't yet lived together is braveGood luck
I would very much imagine its in the small print if your have a look, or your solicitor, has a look. Plenty of people I know who have moved into new builds have had similar delays and I can't imagine they leave themselves open to claims.
You can't ask for "compensation" because currently you have nothing to be compensated for.
IF you incur a cost for something because of a delay in an agreed date, then you can seek to be "compensated" to put you back into the position you otherwise would have been in. The notion of £1.5k of freebies is laughable. Your booked holiday from work is pretty irrelevant (although inconvenient).
I think you are looking about this the wrong way. Instead of jumping on the £bandwagon, you need to be pushing for the completion date you were expecting and focus your energies on that.
In hindsight I'd have taken it and left it empty a month.
Considering you both had somewhere to live and still had stuff to buy it would have made complete sense to complete in December and then you can plan moving in and getting services started for a January move in.
My mum is currently in the process of buying a flat and is currently staying with me, when she completes she will not be moving for a month whilst she sorts out services and new furniture, it just made sense to us.
I have been, I've been asking for well over a month.
1.5K of freebies isn't really laughable with their margins and they're able to give far more than that in incentives.