for any one that needs it, these worked for me, stick it in the game settings file under favoritegames=
169893302,af6c7f2a-1ce4-4060-95c3-59106c00bc07,OcUK BFBC2 Server;1649006985,3e787009-d900-4559-9c62-5812c26ba483,Multiplay.co.uk HARDCORE | =TFU= clan |OCUK;2100052308,bd435618-fe45-4408-845f-93ebe0f0fbad,S18 - Home of the Goats
for three servers