Soldato
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Wait. At least until a month after the funeral.
wait.
You've already decided to wait, so I'll contribute a ludicrous GD response if no one else will.
Wait. Then steal her gran's ring from the casket and propose to her with it. She'll love the gesture and it'll win the family's respect.
But wait.
[FnG]magnolia;22579853 said:Only you know how she might react but I'd be wary of asking a life-changing question when she's lost a (I assume) loved one.
Wait.
If you're going to spend the rest of your lives together it's worth getting it right.
You've already decided to wait, so I'll contribute a ludicrous GD response if no one else will.
Wait. Then steal her gran's ring from the casket and propose to her with it. She'll love the gesture and it'll win the family's respect.
But wait.

+1All you need to do for now is support her like a husband. The proposal can wait.
Marriage changes nothing in a relationship, except legally. But it has absolutely no impact on love, you either love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them or you don't. That ring and those vows are an outdated tradition which serves no purpose in modern society, it's not like we're exchanging sheep for wives. Regardless, girls like it, and relgious people too I guess.
So whats best for her? I'm guessing waiting until after her gran's funeral.

Wait.
If you're going to spend the rest of your lives together it's worth getting it right.

