Soldato
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I hope you got in a pre-empted spiderman
MW
BAHAHAHAA
Or perhaps the Abe Lincoln?
I hope you got in a pre-empted spiderman
MW
funny everyone says on a break means it's over, when imo on a break means a very short term emotional spaz where the girl feels unloved and wants you to prove your love so "leaves" you and waits to see what you do next.
i'm shocked at how quickly the op suggested looking for the next girl as well. even if i've just had 3/4 dates with a girl and decide it's not working, i'm not instantly thinking ok next girl.
everyone seems to be ****ging the girl off but from what you've put i'd say you're the one making all the mistakes here, and you're 5 years older.
If that's the case then even more reason to break up. That attitude would just be incredibly emotionally immature, although perfectly in line with what most 18 year old girls would be like.funny everyone says on a break means it's over, when imo on a break means a very short term emotional spaz where the girl feels unloved and wants you to prove your love so "leaves" you and waits to see what you do next.
we are now 'on a break' from each other
I'm 23 and she's 18.
funny everyone says on a break means it's over, when imo on a break means a very short term emotional spaz where the girl feels unloved and wants you to prove your love so "leaves" you and waits to see what you do next.
i'm shocked at how quickly the op suggested looking for the next girl as well. even if i've just had 3/4 dates with a girl and decide it's not working, i'm not instantly thinking ok next girl.
everyone seems to be ****ging the girl off but from what you've put i'd say you're the one making all the mistakes here, and you're 5 years older.
I'm not doing that for nobody, if they aren't happy with how i've been then tough, don't need to prove myself to her.funny everyone says on a break means it's over, when imo on a break means a very short term emotional spaz where the girl feels unloved and wants you to prove your love so "leaves" you and waits to see what you do next.
i'm shocked at how quickly the op suggested looking for the next girl as well. even if i've just had 3/4 dates with a girl and decide it's not working, i'm not instantly thinking ok next girl.
everyone seems to be ****ging the girl off but from what you've put i'd say you're the one making all the mistakes here, and you're 5 years older.
You couldn't pay me to date an 18yr old. Teenage girls are the most annoying thing on the planet.
funny everyone says on a break means it's over, when imo on a break means a very short term emotional spaz where the girl feels unloved and wants you to prove your love so "leaves" you and waits to see what you do next.
I'm older now than the last time I was with one, but I'm sure they haven't changed much. Fun to be around in a... less than intellectual way.
Grating after a while though.
Guarantee she has been getting a right good rodding from another guy who is "just a friend"
Your girlfriend asked for a break.
90% of the time in which a woman asks her boyfriend for a break, it's because there is another guy chasing her. This doesn't mean she is dating this other guy, but it's very probable that she is very interested in this other person.
Women are like Tarzan. They don't let go of one branch until they have hold of another. Therefore, if things are fine with your girlfriend and then she says "she's confused", it's probably because she has another guy in her view (DO NOT ask her because she will deny it).
Clearly, she is very calm because she knows that you are likely in love with her and when she wants to return, she will, because you will be in your bed, crying over her. Knowing this, she has complete control to try out this new
relationship, while knowing that she still has her other option (YOU!).
Surely, since she told you she is "confused" you smothered her with phonecalls, e-mails, requests, etc. which did nothing but confirm to her that she has you wrapped around her finger. She left you and she knows that she still has you, and the only one hurting over this is YOU!
But... What would happen if she didn't hear from you anymore? What would happen if you don't call her? if you don't chase after her anymore? What will happen if she learned through common friends that you don't talk about her anymore and that you are doing just great without her and moving on with your life?
If she cares, she will realize that she is losing you and only then will she try to fix things. What you decide to do with her is up to you. You have asserted control over the situation.
Oh, I love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection.
I hide behind my jokes, it's a form of protection.
I thought that I was right, but under further inspection,
It seems that I've been heading in the wrong direction.