Hi there
I am pretty new to photography my self, but only after a few weeks i have started to pick up a lot of knowledge and ideas.
It wasn't long since i was asking the same questions as you, and it will not be long until you are looking back at your question wondering how you thought it could ever be so complicated.
The best step i took was to just start taking my camera everywhere... i bought a lowepro trekker 2 bag which means where ever i go, my camera goes, even if i need to pack other stuff in my bag. You pretty soon get used to your camera.
first you will get used to the menus and where all the buttons are, you may not understand what it all means but you will know where it is for future. then you will start seeing the results on screen. At the end of every day, on the bus journey home i will sit and flick through every image looking at it and learning.
Magazines play a big part too. the reviews can be seen as bias but just by reading them you will start to pick bits and bobs up... whats a 'fast glass' and ND grad? all will become clear
its amazing how it all just 'clicks' into place too.
Is there anyone in your area that you can go out with ? i learned a lot just going out with people i met on another forum and just having general camera banter. sharing ideas and knowledge.
Try the daft 'projects' in the magazines too. they may seem a little blue peter but they will help you to understand your camera and its settings!
have fun,
Rick