I would say a large % of safety on a motorbike is down to you, not just gear but forward vision, reading the road and more importantly - reading others.
If it was me I'd lose the image of a suit & a scooter for starters. You need to build up an image of a Police bike rider or Bike Instructor with Hi Vis on & Full leathers with armour protection sitting bolt upright on a sensible bike with his lights on.
Then you need to explain to her the process of becoming legal on a bike via CBT & the 2 part test for your full license.
This way you would sway her away from the unprotected loony on a scooter with wheels like rich tea biscuits towards a sensible way of commuting that will put more money in the kitty for house hold stuff & nights out with her.![]()
If we worried about the chance of something bad happening to us we'd all wrap ourselves in bubble wrap and not leave the house. There's chance in everything.
While the chance of crashing is equal to or less than when driving a car by virtue of the extended training, the trouble is a crash on a bike simply HURTS MORE.
So yes you are less likely to crash if you are well trained and are not stupid, but the simple fact is that it will happen one day and its in the lap of the gods as to how much it hurts.
I came to an abrupt stop into the side of an SUV doing a mere 8-10mph after the kind lady decided to perform a U-Turn out of stationary traffic with no warning whilst i was level with the wing mirror of the car behind her. The trouble with an SUV is that you don't go over the top - you just splat into the side like a fly. I barely had time to grab a brake.
Slow speed and I still suffered for 4 months with 2 broken ribs. Had I have been doing 30mph? I dread to think.
The first point is had I been in a car and struck anything at that speed I would have got out and shook a fist - rather than laying in the road prone, winded and clutching my ribcage whilst wondering what happened. The second point is had I had been in a car I would have never been in that position where the kind lady could have wiped me out in the first place.
This is the sort of thing I keep coming back to. I am seriously considering a 125cc for the short commute I do (North London) to save a packet on petrol and parking, but jeeze there is a huge number of idiots on the roads. Got far too much to live forProbably do it anyway