break up...

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csd said:
Well lastnight was one brillaint night, took the photos to remind me hehe. Sooner I can move on from here will be the next step.

On another note a girl who I have known for over 10 years came out with me and the lads lastnight.. I have a feeling we might end up together (I've wanted to be with her for so long)
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So did you ask her out on the night?

Dont waste anytime.
 
Good luck, sounds like your getting over her already. Last big break up I had was 7 years ago, I found the perfect formula for getting over the gut wrenching emptiness is :

Time + Immersive Gaming + New bird :) And several alcoholic beverages of your choice.
 
csd said:
I have a feeling we might end up together (I've wanted to be with her for so long)
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*winces* Oooh.
Setting yourself up for a bit of hurt there it sounds like, if you're as vunerable as your first post makes out, just always be prepared mentally.

Just don't kid yourself into thinking she's the best thing that's ever happened because she was the next bit of skirt that paid attention to you after a heartbreak of a split up. Play it slow, as you've said :)
 
with all due respect to the OP there's nothing worse than a bloke saying he's lonely around the house now his girl as left or he doesn't know what to do with himself now she's gone. man up!
 
csd said:
Well lastnight was one brillaint night, took the photos to remind me hehe. Sooner I can move on from here will be the next step.

On another note a girl who I have known for over 10 years came out with me and the lads lastnight.. I have a feeling we might end up together (I've wanted to be with her for so long)
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you've wanted to be with her for so long, yet you're gutted about your relationship breaking up. you sound like one who 'has to have a girlfriend' in his life, no matter what

sorry to sound harsh
 
OUCH must be tough living together though?

Once the house is sold and you go your separate ways it will feel much better :)
 
I think you're very brave by living together. My man walked out on me and within 8 weeks was living with another woman which in highensight (sp?) was the best thing that could have happened. It gave me space and the chance to get my head together which once I'd stopped blaming myself and realised I was better off without him was easy.

I bought him out in the end. The best thing I ever did but I appreciate how you are lonely. I moved to Sussex to be with him and my job means I don't have any colleagues in the area so making friends is tough. I believe everything happens for a reason though so whatever the outcome is for you, it will be the right one whether that be now or in X years time.

Good luck.
 
Would it be worth you both keeping the house as a business investment and rent it out whilst living elsewhere seperately until your mortgage agreement is up?
 
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