Bulimia

Even to this day I still don't fully understand the wild weight swings
Weigh yourself, have a cup of tea, weigh yourself again, 4lb difference, weigh cup of tea, and then try and work out where the difference is coming from -wtf :eek:
I used to record my weight in a chart, and would weigh myself 1-15 times a day, mainly before work and the evenings as I didn't have access to scales at work or it would have been worse

No its mystifying how it works, I never could work it out either, like you say cup of tea could equal several pounds and yet I could go out and drop 10 pints ( I was drinking at that time ) and wake up in the morning and be lighter than I was prior to drinking, I guess its water retention or something. I remember carrying scales to work in my bag so I could weigh myself.

It became a running joke in my place of work that no one ever saw me eat lunch or indeed anything. I would have been mortified to have eaten in front of anyone then anyway (even now I cant eat in front of strangers or people I dont know very well ). I would say I am over it all now although parts of it remain with me, I know though that it would be easy to go back there though, partly because (and this might sound odd) I remember the time as one of my most happiest periods (present situation excluded).

It was about 5 years before I could eat a meal at my parents in laws house in front of them and would feign some level of illness that prevented me from eating with them and used to sit at the table feeling increasing discomfort. To this day I despise feeling full, I rarely eat anything before 6pm each day as I associate the feeling of hunger as normal.
 
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A while back I involuntarily starved myself for half a year and my stomach was likely permanently shrunk. I couldn't concentrate, got exhausted after a 5 minute walk and was so weak I collapsed into my chair whenever I sat down.
 
And this thread also proves the myth of eating disorder = only teenage girls.

3 or 4 other males have come forward in this thread and I'll wager there are 100s more on this forum alone.
 
Ex Anorexic chiming in here. Yes you can get over eating disorders but it takes a really, really long time to get your thought processes back to normal when it comes to food and weight.
 
So much BS in this thread - personal anecdotes I sympathise with, but it's certainly not the case for everyone.

Clinical psychology is what she needs to go for. They will do an assessment and then she will receive the correct support.

While this forum is good for information, people should be careful of believing things at face value.
 
It shares some similarities with addiction in that respect. Alcoholism is just the most famous example. An alcoholic might not have drunk alcohol for years and they might have made a complete physical recovery, but they're not completely over it. In one sense, it's still part of them. You don't have alcoholics who now drink in moderation. They drink far too much or not at all, so it's still a part of them. Even if they're completely used to not drinking alcohol at all and they're fine with it.

That is true, sadly you can't hide away from food like you can alcohol.

I've certainly never said you can't get over it (I did say there is a saying once a bulemic always a bulemic).
I'm absolutely positive that a good percentage of people went through the illness and no longer think about it.
Yes it is 'weak willed' just like anybody who is addicted to cigarettes, alcohol and other drugs - you go so far and it's very hard to get off the rollercoaster because of what your brain & body are telling you.
The only problem is that you can step off the rollercoater like I did in May 1988 but for those few months up until the Robert Kilroy Silk incident my life was a living hell with really bad depression.
I am not going there EVER again and I find talking about it helps.

I also forgot to mention a major problem I had caused and still suffer from.
Because of my anorexia/bulemia I had buggered my internals up and while in the Ward after a meal I would be lying down in agony and then throwing up.
I explained that it hurt me to eat but nobody was having it.
The Head Nurse (now my best friend) believed me after observation and I was rushed to the Royal Infirmary where I nearly had a colostomy bag fitted because my bowels had gone faulty because of the abuse.
I had surgery and then had to have the most horriblest medicine for 3 months to keep me unblocked.
To this day I don't fart and if I'm ready to fart then I need to be on a toilet.

That sounds horrendous. At least you know you will never go back to it, in a way perhaps having to go through that much pain was a good thing for you in the long run.

And this thread also proves the myth of eating disorder = only teenage girls.

3 or 4 other males have come forward in this thread and I'll wager there are 100s more on this forum alone.

Well if it's like you say that it's very hard to shake then all those teenagers become adults no? It's more likely that teenages don't get help till they are adults.
 
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