Imagine the grief I'd get if I lost my job and claimed not to be able to find another for the next three decades.So when something bad happens we should just move on, forget it ever happened and you honestly cant empathise with anyone enough to realise they might be upset if you mock them?
Essentially what you're pointing out in this thread is just a complete lack of social skills.
I doubt there'd be much (any) sympathy coming from you or anyone else

So why give the (ex)miners a free ride?