Can someone explain...

So when something bad happens we should just move on, forget it ever happened and you honestly cant empathise with anyone enough to realise they might be upset if you mock them?

Essentially what you're pointing out in this thread is just a complete lack of social skills.
Imagine the grief I'd get if I lost my job and claimed not to be able to find another for the next three decades.

I doubt there'd be much (any) sympathy coming from you or anyone else :p

So why give the (ex)miners a free ride?
 
IIRC there was an entire thread where people gave you pages upon pages of really good advice and you ignored all of it.

Get over it, move on, reskill and never moan about it again.
All you did there is dodge the question. If I spent two or three decades unemployed how much sympathy would I get here?
 
Systematic destruction of an industry is different to one person being unemployed, hth.

It's like not understanding why Port Talbot might be a bit screwed if/when the steelworks closes and unable to comprehend why everybody doesn't just become an account manager for AWS.
Nobody is failing to understand why an area might be impacted by the loss of its biggest employer.

What is striking is the fact that 30 years have past and they're still "suffering" from the closure of the mines. 30 years is 1.5 generations. Heck, their kids should have been to school, perhaps got a degree, and could be doing anything. The miners themselves could well have retired by now.
 
If you did nothing to help yourself like you did in that thread, then zero.

But you're skirting around every point I make because you just like the argument, again you've just assumed that everyone affected by the miners strike has been out of work for 30 years.

Im guessing you still cant comprehend how a family breadwinner losing possibly the only option for employment might still be a sore topic after 30 years even if they picked themselves out of it.
**** happens. People lose their jobs all the time. Am I supposed to feel bad for them, 30 years (and potentially countless jobs) later? Sorry, can't bring myself to have sympathy for a job they lost 30 years ago.

It's practically ancient history.

What this thread shows is the capacity for bitterness to survive many, many decades. But I don't give a fig for your bitterness, and don't believe we should tread on eggshells because you've got a massive chip on your shoulder.
 
Suffering doesn't mean everybody is unemployed. The loss of a large/only employer has massive repercussions that take a long time to recover from, so it's completely understandable why an area might still be feeling the impact several decades later. If you cannot comprehend how that is possible and have some genius plan to prevent it happening then perhaps that's your calling in life.
You know all those gold rush towns that cropped up? When the gold ran out they dismantled the towns and left.

If you have a town where the sole industry is closed down, maybe your first choice should be to go somewhere else. In the thread that Boycey was keen to bring into this discussion that was the #1 piece of advice given to me. "Move if you want more money." As it happens I didn't want the extra money enough to uproot. If these miners couldn't find any other work it strikes me they had much more reason to move than I do. I may not earn a fortune but I have no problems finding work at least.

If we're measuring "suffering" purely in terms of the population being smaller with lots of run-down areas and empty housing... I just see that as part of the cycle of birth and death. If you stay in a dying area when you have a choice to leave, then you can't really blame anyone else but yourself.
 
Don't you constantly complain about the opportunities available in Cornwall though? Just seems a bit strange to post in such ruthless terms when you're known for wanting people to empathise with your own position.
I recall saying that Cornwall is a depressed area with mostly low-wages. But that in itself isn't the issue. The problem (this is off-topic and I'm not going to respond in detail) is that Cornwall has low wages coupled with a very high cost of living.

I couldn't care less what people think about my own situation, lol. I had a choice to stay or leave and chose to stay because I'm comfortable here, and I'm extremely risk averse. Just part of my nature. But things would be very different if I couldn't find work and had no prospects of doing so. Then I would feel that there was no choice and I'd have to move. As it is I'm on UK nat avg wage (just under) which is enough to get by.

My biggest gripe isn't what I earn (in a vacuum this means nothing) but how big the gulf between earnings and house prices is down here. Absolutely no hope of ever owning a place in Cornwall with 1x nat avg UK wage. Unless they start doing 75 year mortgages :p
 
Must a generational thing. The people in that pic are a lot older than me.

Speaking to parents, etc, a common theme is how many of them believe life was better 20,30,40 years ago. Just nostalgic/living in the past, I would say.

I guess in a decade or two most people won't really care too much about coal mines that closed 40-50 years ago.
 
And that is what is happening now. Saw on the local news the Rugby Society are going to have some local mining history lessons as a result now.
Just LOL. They really do have a chip on their shoulder about the loss of their mines, 30 years ago.

Imagine if the Cornish were still bitter about losing their tin and copper mines. The last of those closed at about the same time - although most had already closed by the start of the 20th century.

We're certainly interested in our mining heritage, although these days we're still paying for it in terms of environmental impact and long-running cleanup operations. But Cornwall long ago moved on. Obvs 30 years aint enough time. But hopefully in another 30 they'll be less bitter about it.
 
From googling it seems to have taken nearly 100 years for mining in cornwall to die off slowly, not quite in the same way as up north. No numbers though. Good job they got 100 years to move on and get over it! Still bitter though, enough to want it to be counted as a world heritage site for mining in fact.
LOLs. You have no idea what you're talking about, if you think that being a site of historical significance (note the word "historical") implies bitterness that the past is not the present.

In fact that makes absolutely zero sense. Good job!

Do you think that because Rome restores and protects the Colosseum (etc) that they are still bitter about the loss of the Roman empire? Such a weak retort.
 
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