change in attitude/relationship - cut and run?

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helpimcrap

helpimcrap

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over the last year my attitude has changed quite a bit i think.... maybe for the better.

im pretty carefree in my opinion and attitude towards all things, even moreso relationships. this has seen me somehow gaining 6 phone numbers since new year! thats a not a boast or anything as its unlikely to ever happen again and i can only put it down to my attitude of letting the pack fall where it may so to speak and throwing caution to the wind (anyone who has seen true romance will see where im coming from).

now i have a potential problem brewing...

ive kinda got into someone in a pretty mindblowing way. ie i only have to look at her and she makes me smile. now i think shes kinda starting to feel the same way even though she knows she shouldnt get involved with me. basically shes going back to czech in a couple of months (2?) and didnt want to hurt me but things have errr progressed since then. we both know where we stand, ie i know shes going, she knows shes going... its going nowhere. ive told her id rather know her for a couple of months than not at all but i find myself wondering what im going to do when shes gone as im not one to fall lightly. :o it all kinda falls into place in that for the next 8 months after she goes i really could do with being single (other commitments!) but from not wanting to hurt me and trying to blow me off basically she mentioned the other day about me visiting her when shes out there for a few weeks. :eek:

so its getting more complicated and im unsure whether to go with that idea which admittedly does sound bloody appealing as its with her and i will have somewhere to stay - so she says anyway.

should i cut and run before i get hurt or shall i just see how it goes?

i already know what im going to do, i guess im just fishing for opinions and wanted to get this off my chest. sad eh? lol.

damn, why does the one girl ive met who blows my mind have to leave so soon. :(
 
Cut and run.
if your falling in a big way, now being apart will be murder.
If theres no way you can be together then best to break it off now.
This if from heartfelt experience that has cost me dearly, wish i had cut and run :-(.
 
Go with her!

In 10 years you can look back and say:

1. I moved to the Czech Republic and had some amazing times and amazing sex in a foreign country with a hot bird. Didn't work out and I came back, but was a great time anyway.

2. I didn't go with her cause I had some boring financial commitment or something equally as tedious so I broke up with her. I sometimes dream about that thing she did with her hair when she was on top etc etc
 
i kinda figured as much. kipper mitten has a very valid point and kinda echos what my brain is saying.

she may not feel the same way as shes very very difficult to read and private.

suffice to say i've never met a girl who intrigues me and interests me as much as she does.

and the whole czech thing is just kinda an airy fairy 1 in a million idea that was basically suggesting a holiday there, nothing permanent and it may have been errrr pillow talk(;))... but i have only known her for 5 weeks so its kinda early days and ive only every seen her for 7 days of that outside of the brief 5 mins i see her in work.

time will tell. :)

cheers for all the answers so far... appreciated :)
 
big_white_dog84 said:
The 7 days thing changes it. Still get over there on a free holiday and make sure you come back struggling to walk! ;) (and not in a homosexual way)
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yeah... it does change it a bit. hence my dilemma. im not one to go against my head but recently ive just been kinda following the rule of 'what will be will be' but this is something that deserves a bit more attention than dumb luck. ;)

still.... chances are shes just gonna leave and end of. nothing.... but theres still an outside chance of something different happening.
 
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