First of all these complex multi-threaded responses between us are taking a lot of time to write - and I am supposed to be working. Can we leave this as one more response each? (This will be my last) Then we can shake and carry on?
Indeed, I think we are getting no further to be honest. In closing I would say that you feel that your faith has very valid reasons to discriminate between men and women and to discriminate against homosexuality. Whilst I feel the arguements about what is dogma, tradition and Tradition are somewhat semantic I can see why you would feel that the discriminations of the Church are valid, even if I do not agree with them. I would however say that the fact that the Church holds these views makes it an organisation that discriminates regardless of the justification for it.
Women cannot become priests, bishops, cardinals or popes, therefore they are excluded from the higher echelons of the Church. This is a fact. From an objective point of view this would be discrimination.
The church lobbies against homosexual marriage, homosexual adoption and considers homosexuality a disorder and something sinful/shameful/wrong. It's actions against homosexuals and lobbying activity support this. Again, from an objective point of view, this would be discrimination.
Dogma are the biggies. They have to be believed and there isn't scope for picking and choosing. There is nothing there that states that the Adam & Eve story is literal.
It seems somewhat odd then that your previous list of dogma would mention Adam and Eve if the story is allegorical. Why is it dogma we are descended from Adam and Eve (from the list you previously supplied) if the story is not a literal one?
I think that religion is given far less protection today than it needs. You only have to look at all the cases which are used to roughshod over the right to hold religious beliefs. I think as well you will find yourself up in court over anything deemed to be "anti-gay" far quicker than anything deemed to be "anti-faith"
I was specifically speaking about these boards. Religion has been afforded a greater level of protection than sexuality or political beliefs. I would also disagree with you as far as the wider world goes. I would suggest what is actually happening is that some of the protections that religion once enjoyed are being (rightfully) stripped away. However it still has protected status as far as discrimination laws go. no one stops you holding whatever religious beliefs you wish, what may be curtailed is how much you are allowed to let them impact others. If I cannot run a business that would discriminate against your religion why should you be able to run a business that could discriminate against my sexuality?
I would expect nothing less than rational disagreement from you.
I can occassionally do rational agreement too, though less often!
I think we can find some level of consensus on this. Everyone has the right to their beliefs - I think we are agreed on that. But surely any beliefs that people hold that you disagree with should still be discussed in a respectful manner? I think we have pretty much been in solid disagreement throughout this thread but always in a respectful manner. That is a stern contrast with the approach that elmarko1234 has taken.
The problem is that different people will have different views as to what respectful means. For example telling someone that they suffer from a disorder could be considered disrespectful.
I don't know your beliefs on abortion. If you were supportive of it though I would challenge those beliefs with every fibre of my being. I wouldn't abuse you for holding them.
You would disagree with me on quite a few levels because my views on abortion are tied in quite firmly to views on contraception and the right of a woman to control her own body. With proper education and access to contraception and decent sex education there would be no need for as many abortions as are currently carried out. However I would quite frimly resist any move to restrict access to abortion because I believe that the woman's right to control her own body trumps the rights of the unborn child and the rights of the religious to enforce their views on others.