I am going to try something new, i will try from scratch, wipe my computer, reset the router, set it up via another non-wireless no-network-card computer through the usb port, and try and connect wirelessly to that, something is conflicting somewhere and with the current setup, be here forever.
Really appreciate all the input time and help, especially crash.
Cheers folks.
(Consider this the end of this thread for now from me)