Luckily, cpu coolers are relatively good value for money considering the benefit they bring to a system. I am using an
Arctic Cooling Freezer 7 Pro. It cost me around £16 (I see it's more than that now) and keeps my cpu at about 35C idle and 48C peak, less during gaming infact, It also came with the thermal compound readily applied to the base. The noise level is about 32 Db at max, which is not at all bad. There are some quieter ones out there like the ninja scythe but it is around the £30 range - certainly still not a particularly bank-breaking figure.
Also, relating to my cpu fan. At max it is a little bit audable, but at about 55% it becomes silent while cpu temperatures only increase by about 8%, between about 90% and 60% it is a little louder than 100% (different pitch is more noticeable). The top of the heatsink never gets warm, the heat is dissipated very effectively so the lower fan speed just mean the warmth reaches higher up the sink and doesn't persist in the cpu any more than at 100% speed. If you can find a utility to automatically lower the speed to it's silent range then it would be a great fan for a silent build - whilst allowing you to decide upon a greater overclock at the sacrifice of silence if you choose so later. For me, I have annoying loud gpus and an annoying loud switch by my head so I can't notice it at all.
You should have space for a tower cooler like I have mentioned above (judging by your motherboard), but there are some good low profile ones to take a look at on
ocuk, it may be cheaper somewhere else
Always remember to google the product name and find some positive reviews to narrow down your search and find the right component for you. And remember that they don't always come with the fan! (AC Freezer 7 Pro does)
I took a look at some reviews for the GA-965P-DS3 and it looks promising.
However, I noticed on the
bios update page that the board "Supports Intel Core™ 2 Duo processors with FSB1333 " - what about quads? To get the Q6600 above 2.4 stock you need to up the fsb beyond 1066 (max multiplier is 9), so there may be some minor issues there. But it is common to push beyond the board's fsb when overclocking so I wouldn't worry too much.
Also, there seem to be
3 "revisions" of that motherboard - let alone the bios versions.
Be glad you don't have an Asus P5N-T, then you'd be going nowhere fast