Poll: Curious question - Ex GFs

Who ended your last relationship

  • I did

    Votes: 200 46.4%
  • My partner did

    Votes: 140 32.5%
  • We ended it mutually

    Votes: 91 21.1%

  • Total voters
    431
Kind of had some issues cropping up where I thought I was losing her back to her ex, then I was a bit drunk and stupid at Creamfields and upset her, so when we got back sghe just said she couldn't hack my immaturity.
Tried to explain it was because I was leathered but she just said she's still 100% my friend and i'm an amazing person, just need to chill for a bit so its best we don't see each other.

Absolutely devvo'd really. Want to kill myself for being such an idiot.
 
I've not long broke up with the GF, I guess I just didn't love her any more... Didn't "like" her any less, but spending time together just seemed to be more of a chore in the last while.
I genuinely enjoyed times when I was on my own.

Hmm.. I think I'm getting to this place. :(

Oh, and we're not 'sexually compatible' :confused:
 
She did. Dumped me in a club infront of all our mutal friends. I walked to the other end of the club and started talking to another women. That other women is now my wife and we have been together 16 years.

What a stroke of luck, she did me a favour and it ate at her for quite a few years.
Awesome.
 
I chose "i did", although the circumstances were different. She ended it after 2.5 years, but decided a week later she had made a mistake and wanted to get back together. I denied this, however, as i had met my current gf who i've been with now for almost 4 years.
 
I did, but only because he was too gutless to do it himself so was a nasty barsteward to me so inevitably I couldn't put up with him anymore.

Saw this thread yesterday but didn't post and ended up having a dream about the Ex last night dammit! :mad:

BB x
 
I selected ended it mutually. At the time we did. However I later by lucky chance got her to spill the beans that she had been doing the dirty with one of my good friends behind my back for a short while. He gave her the boot 3 weeks later. Took me 2 and a half years to let it go and am now speaking to her occasionally. If I'd of found out before we had broken up i'd of shown her the door. I'm one to hold a grudge.
 
It ended mutually.

Well TECHNICALLY, she dumped me.. she actually came back one weekend and it was the weekend I was planning to have "the talk" with her, but she got there first! It was a pretty mutual ending, we're good friends now.
 
Let me see... I'm pretty good at picking up if a relationship is not working and I prefer to be single than in a relationship that's not going to work.
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American - 3 years and she did, but she was cheating and she had to go back to america so looking back on it, probably the best thing.
UK - ended mutually, just no spark after three months. I lost interest.
Italian - ended mutually. Beautiful, passionate and very socially intelligent. Although I really liked her, you know when it's not going to work. Went on a holiday together after the split too.
American - she ended, although I could see it wasn't going to work. Lovely long blonde hair too
Russian - tall blonde, smart and a qualified lawyer doing a law cross over degree - I did. Serious financial hazard!
Fujian - (fuji born, but irish parents - lovely long ginger hair). Mutual due to what we wanted from life being different (her 28, me 35 .. :D). Did I mention she was 5'10, long slim legs, slim body, hazel eyes, long ginger hair with freckles :D).

Thinking Swedish or Finnish next :D
 
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I broke up with her when I fell in love with (and later married) someone else. Shame, as she was a super-hot nymphomaniac. :p

Then again, so is my wife. :D
 
American - 3 years and she did, but she was cheating and she had to go back to america so looking back on it, probably the best thing.

American - 13 years and then she started cheating, so I divorced her. She's still living in my town.

Russian - tall blonde, smart and a qualified lawyer doing a law cross over degree - I did. Serious financial hazard!

Russian - tall blonde, 7 years my junior, smart and a structural engineer. Encourages me to spend way too much money on computers, cameras, and my other hobbies. Currently my wife. :D
 
She was way too obsessed with exams and VERY boring, although I would say it was mutual, she insitigated the breakup before I did so I suppose she came out looking better, although all my friends knew how collosally dull she had become.


In love now! I think! Best I've ever felt about someone at least, always felt sometimes like I could see the up side of being single but I don't here.
 
I don't think I've been dumped. There's been mutuals, there's been drifted aparts, I'm rubbish at breaking up with women.
 
This poll has decided that OcUK have balls.

I ended, was far too crazy and clingy, still is now, and I've got a new one on the horizion, just i'm moving out to go to college and she is also probably moving back to London too!

She's nearly 19 and i'm nearly 17 though, so it's all good in my land.
 
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