Dealing with a break up

I once got barred from every nightclub in Wigan because I went out with my ex amongst mutual friends. I'd be careful what I drink if I was you, I spoilt that night for everyone and have never been so embarrassed in my life as I was the next day.
 
It'll take time mate but you'll feel fine after a while. I'm enjoying the single life, not letting anything get too serious relationship wise with girls I meet. Haven't been this flush in ages TBH and am treating myself to nice things for a change :D
 
true about cash - i bought some tickets to Strictly Come Dancing Live for her birthday. Luckily I never gave them to her. No chance is she getting them. They are going on ebay!!!!
 
rossyl said:
true about cash - i bought some tickets to Strictly Come Dancing Live for her birthday. Luckily I never gave them to her. No chance is she getting them. They are going on ebay!!!!
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Or you could do what that bloke did with flight tickets a while back, auction one ticket off as part of a date with you to the event... :D Send your ex the link once the auction has completed as well :p
 
Solari said:
Or you could do what that bloke did with flight tickets a while back, auction one ticket off as part of a date with you to the event... :D Send your ex the link once the auction has completed as well :p
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could end up with some nutter...but good thought.

Thank god I didn't book a valentines meal, there are cancellation charges on them!
 
You just have to see her and treat her as a friend. Don't go out of your way to pull unless you actually meet someone you like - doing it to spite her would just be pathetic. Go out, have fun and don't put so much thought into it :)
 
Jesmond said:
You just have to see her and treat her as a friend. Don't go out of your way to pull unless you actually meet someone you like - doing it to spite her would just be pathetic. Go out, have fun and don't put so much thought into it :)
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thanks mate
 
It can be hard seeing an ex straight after break up but the truth is you've just got to deal with it man.

My personal experience has been that break-ups where I've kept in some contact afterwards have been the healthiest. Those have turned out being easier to get over them.

Getting dumped over the phone when abroad and never seeing her again was the hardest
 
Well we met up and had a sort of chat where she said she should've told me how she felt sooner etc.

i acted quite cool about it, as if everything was fine. And that i wasn't upset.

we had a good time & no doubt decided we'd be friends. Made her laugh a lot, to the point she was asking me to stop making her laugh.

whilst it was a good night, and not uncomfortable. I acted grown up etc. All it did was remind me why i liked her in the first place, how pretty she is, and how much i'll miss her.

the amount i could make her smile and laugh only made me wonder why she'd want to end things. But even worse that she might want to get back together. Which is a stupid way to think.

i really do feel like rubbish, and this is why i hate opening up to girls as i end up hurt & it takes a while to recover.

little can be done now. Just hope she doesn't flirt with guys in front of me on saturday as that will crush me.

hopefully i'll get over her sooner rather than later as right now i feel terrible.
 
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even if s he does it doesnt matter, because you know shes making do with them because she cant have you now :)
 
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