Soldato
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- 21 Apr 2007
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Control is awesome; I remember some years ago I used to worry and lose sleep over how to pay for the bills and had to juggle stuff but a few years ago my hand was forced (in a good way) and I had to focus on what I was spending and start repaying. I've made good progress and each time I look at a statement its a good feeling about how its come down and not worry about what it is now.
Over the next 6 months I have a few loans that will then pay off so I can accelerate the repayment of the rest.
I've been itching to get myself some new toys like a new TV, camera, macbook but I remind myself of how to pay for it and I want to pay for it in cash or 0% and I can't do either atm so I say no......
It can really get me down sometimes, especially when I see a 'friend' of mine who went through a period of a few years spending loads on two houses, laptops, holidays, phones, cars (but then had no job security, pension, savingsetc..) and then it all came crashing down within a period of about 4 months for them and they pretty much had to shuffle it all off - whilst I was jealous at the big time and to some extent pity them, I'm not jealous as I'm the one in a better long term position. I'm not even sure they've learnt as they still appear to be spending monmey they don't have on stuff. I could never balance what they would be getting/earning *cough* with apparent expenditure.
Wow, wall of text but its a big thing in general for me as I made mistakes when I was younger and now I'm 'paying' for them; it'll be OK in the end.
No surprise there, human beings always look at short term instead of long term. Being fat is perfect example, if I eat this burger now i'll feel good for all of 10 mins!!!! if you lose all that weight though you feel better for the rest of your life.