destiny ?

moon man · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:22

as regards your partner wife or husband (now or in the future) or whatever you want to call them
do you think you are destined to meet a certain person in life or is it a case of threres a certain percentage of the opposite sex (or same sex i aint predudice) that you are compatible with you.
in other words do i hang around dating sites or is it going to happen on its own
with this cosmic ordering malarkey or whatever its called
yes i have been drinking and single 13 months

Sliver · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:27

moon man said:
and single 13 months

There's a very good reason for that.

Mynight · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:30

Harsh

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If destiny exists why does it hate some people so much?

moon man · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:34

keep thinking im going to turn a corner and my ideal partner is there but,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Diddums · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:40

Put the bottle away.

Hades · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:45

There are a certain percentage that are compatible with you. You make your own destiny.

Swifty55 · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:46

Females are evil!

Evil, I tell you!

Thekwango · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:56

Very typical question many men and women ask themselves at this time of the year. I don't have an answer but what I can say is you won't meet your soul mate posting on OcUK on New Years Eve. Get up have a shower and go to the club/bar or whatever you fancy. Sitting about hoping to find them isn't the way to find them.

Malevolence · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:56

=XDC=FluphyBunny · 31 Dec 2016 at 20:57

Not destiny.

Probably a few woman you could make a relationship work with. And I do mean work.

moon man · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:02

Thekwango said:
Very typical question many men and women ask themselves at this time of the year. I don't have an answer but what I can say is you won't meet your soul mate posting on OcUK on New Years Eve. Get up have a shower and go to the club/bar or whatever you fancy. Sitting about hoping to find them isn't the way to find them.

theres only sheep around here and errr bodmin

Dav4 · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:07

I've heard numerous times one from a very good pshycic "yes they do exist" that life presents roads for us to take and it's our own choice which way we go. Sometimes it might be the wrong choice but we will never know. It's like that with relationships also.

Malevolence · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:10

Dav4 said:
I've heard numerous times one from a very good pshycic "yes they do exist"

Rroff · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:13

An interesting one actually.

What really sucks is when, after a few bad relationships, you come to an understanding of what someone needs to be (not necessarily idealistic as such) for you to even consider being in a committed relationship any more and no one you meet measures upto that.

Dav4 · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:14

they do exist trust me. Tell me how a stranger who doesn't know me can tell me all my dead relatives, siblings, job, things going on in my life etc without knowing me? And before anyone says I'm not on social media at all so no they haven't looked me up anywhere.

Hades · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:34

Thekwango said:
Very typical question many men and women ask themselves at this time of the year. I don't have an answer but what I can say is you won't meet your soul mate posting on OcUK on New Years Eve. Get up have a shower and go to the club/bar or whatever you fancy. Sitting about hoping to find them isn't the way to find them.

Very much this. Whether there is "the one" or "many" the best way of increasing your chances of finding them is to get out and meet people.

Tosno · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:42

Everyone has free will to take whatever road they want. You need to stop taking the blue beta pills and take the red alpha ones and then you will find your business partner or/and wife.

P.S. The rare real "pshycics" that are not cold reading are evil, all magic comes from the same sauce.

Efour · 31 Dec 2016 at 21:52

No. Nothing happens on its own.

coolsurfer · 31 Dec 2016 at 22:00

Take some red pills mate.

Housey · 31 Dec 2016 at 22:02

Thekwango said:
Very typical question many men and women ask themselves at this time of the year. I don't have an answer but what I can say is you won't meet your soul mate posting on OcUK on New Years Eve. Get up have a shower and go to the club/bar or whatever you fancy. Sitting about hoping to find them isn't the way to find them.

Indeed, some people will never find a partner even though the desperately want one, because they are shy/scared/unable to converse easily with the opposite sex or more often, simply too lazy to get their ass in gear and go on the hunt because "I can't be bothered with all that crap".

It's 22:01. Get a shower, get some clothes on and get down the pub, even if it's just your local. If you don't have any mates, go find a pub with a busy bar and some entertainment and get chatting to people. From there it starts. The likelihood is if you are one of these people (there is nothing wrong with that) your success on dating sites will be crap too, not that i've ever been near such a site in my life.

Also be clear, as you get older charisma and the ability to converse and make people laugh will virtually always outweigh your lack of Brad Pitness.